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I am Brother Hui, and I meet you in the emotional world every day. I have a story, do you have wine?

---Article/Brother Hui talks about emotions

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Preface: Rabindranath Tagore once said: " Love is another name for understanding and consideration. "

We have heard about the love of the older generation, although it is not grand, romantic, or even without food or clothing, but they have never We have disliked each other, and we have not abandoned each other. What we have is persistence in hardships, support in falls, and understanding and consideration in ups and downs.

However, when our lives become better and better, love quietly changes its taste without realizing it.

Some girls take boys' kindness to them for granted, thinking that since they like me, they must give me time, money and satisfy all my needs. They regard whether a boy can pay for themselves as the only criterion for whether he loves them. Once the other person cannot satisfy them, they will give him a hard time, scold and make things difficult for him.

For boys, on the one hand, they need to work hard to make money, and on the other hand, they have to please their girlfriends. Therefore, they are often exhausted at work and love, and live without self-esteem and dignity. What they didn't expect was that despite their best efforts, they still couldn't satisfy their girlfriend's ever-expanding desires. Finally, when they ran out of money and energy, they received a breakup notice from their girlfriend.

When love becomes a kind of transaction and request, can this kind of love last long?

Girl's love makes her boyfriend overwhelmed

Xiaopeng is a dealer, and his work is very hard, but because of his hard work and honesty in treating others, his business is doing well.

Three years ago, Xiaopeng met Xiaoting, who was studying in university, and fell in love with her at first sight. After a period of diligent pursuit, Xiaopeng got her wish and made her his girlfriend.

After three years of love, Xiaoting has transformed from a college student to a young man entering the society. However, their love has become increasingly difficult after three years of testing. The two even got into trouble on a TV show.

Standing on the stage, Xiaopeng said: "In the past three years, I have spent all my savings for her family, but I have not gotten the results I deserve." Then Xiaopeng said that Xiaoting's younger brother studied art in high school and has been studying art for the past three years. They all relied on him to fund their studies. At first, he gave money to his girlfriend, who then gave the money to her brother. Later, in order to save trouble, her family applied for a bank card for her brother, and he sent money to her brother regularly every month.

Regarding this point, Xiaoting explained: "My family's living conditions are really not good. My brother finally learned art, so my family asked me to find a way to help him pay for his study and living expenses. I had no choice but to find a boyfriend. Friends help.”

Xiaopeng knew that his girlfriend’s family was in poor condition, so he helped her brother without any complaints. After his girlfriend's brother was admitted to college, he thought he would be relieved, but he didn't expect that his girlfriend asked him to prepare for his brother's college expenses, which made him very confused.

Xiaopeng said that his girlfriend is very willful and he must always spoil her, otherwise she will give him a hard time. One time when the Chinese New Year was approaching, his business was in the off-season and he couldn't make enough money, so his girlfriend asked her to take her parents and relatives on a trip, and he would pay all the expenses for the trip.

Xiaoting explained: "Before the Chinese New Year, I discussed with him whether I could take my parents to travel somewhere farther away. When he didn't answer, I took it as acquiescence. When I talked about traveling with my parents, it happened that some people at home My relatives were there, so I went with him.”

Xiaopeng said that although he spent money on that trip, his girlfriend was still very unhappy, thinking that he didn’t arrange for his relatives to stay in a star-rated hotel and eat delicious food, which would make her embarrassed. There is no light on her, because her relatives all know that her boyfriend has good conditions.

Xiaopeng then said something that troubled him very much. He said that he had made some money a while ago and wanted to expand his business and make it bigger. But his girlfriend asked him to take out the money and renovate her house. Xiaopeng didn't agree, so his girlfriend kept quarreling with him all day long and trying to cheer him up.

Xiaoting responded angrily: "I have something on my mind, can I laugh happily?"

Xiaopeng went on to say that in order to make his girlfriend happy, he had to give in again and took out the money to renovate the house for his girlfriend's house. .

Xiaopeng then said with emotion: "I carefully reviewed the three years of love, and I don't know whether to continue to persist or give up. I feel that being with her is only about money, and there is little communication. Apart from money, I I feel like there’s nothing left.”

Seeing this, the emotional mentor couldn’t bear it anymore. He said to Xiaopeng: “If I use the money I earned through hard work, I can share the pressure of life with my girlfriend and her family. , This is a good word, and many men don't have this ability. You are no exception, so I feel very tired."

Then the emotional instructor said sharply to Xiaoting: "Girl, your brother is half as good as him in studying. Does it have anything to do with money? It's a matter of love that he helps you, but it's not his duty. What does it have to do with decorating your home? Arranging for your parents to go on a trip should be your responsibility, not his. When you get married, you have to ask for this and that; if someone doesn’t want to build a house for you, just slump your face. Why are you so spineless?”

After the emotional instructor’s comments, Xiaoting shed tears of regret, thinking that she had been really honest before. I made a mistake and ask my boyfriend to understand and forgive me.

In the final selection process, both people chose to give up, and this overwhelming love also came to an end.

Conclusion: My grandma, a famous sociologist, said: " If love is only based on money, it will never last long. Because it is always changing, and as time goes by, this pressure will also change. It gets bigger and bigger, and eventually becomes overwhelming. " takes it for granted.

We don’t live in a vacuum. In today’s real society, talking about love always involves many practical things, such as houses, cars, betrothal gifts, etc. Some people may envy the heroes and heroines in TV dramas who love each other to the death, but in real society there are indeed very few of them. We can't pretend to be aloof, and it's not that we don't believe in love, it's just because this society is no longer a simple society.

Once two people decide to be together, they have to face many things together, and it is often these things that make our love less pure. In fact, everyone hopes for pure love, but we must have a certain material foundation before considering whether our love is pure.

Love does require a material foundation, but it is by no means just material. Materials can be obtained through hard work, but love cannot. If a person really loves you, he will never put material first, blindly ask for it from you, and make you carry a heavy burden. If love really becomes like this, it’s okay not to.

Xiaoting is lucky to have met a warm and responsible man like Xiaopeng, who is willing to give all his emotions and money for her. But she didn't know how to cherish it. For the sake of her brother and family, she not only treated Xiaopeng as a free cash machine, but also showed her face to him from time to time. In the end, he was overwhelmed and left disheartened.

Although it is said later that Xiaoting shed tears of regret, no one can guarantee whether they were the tears of crocodile pretending. Xiaopeng didn't dare to take a gamble, and we were happy for his departure and hoped that he could live a relaxed life in the days to come.

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About the author: Brother Hui, a middle-aged uncle who has been running, hopes to wake up those drowsy people with his clumsy words.

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