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Introduction:
After women are over 55 years old, as single women, what will they usually do if they lack the company of a man for a long time? How do you deal with loneliness? I believe many single women have such troubles. Today three single women expressed their thoughts. Let us take a look at their stories.
Narrator 1: Ms. Chen is 55 years old
I am 55 years old and I am now a single woman. In fact, I originally had a very happy family. When I first got married, my husband loved me very much. He was in business. , I also have money, and I am more generous in doing things. I often buy some fresh gifts for me. After we got married, we also had two lovely sons. At that time, I felt that I married the right person and lived a happy life.
But later, my husband fell in love with another woman and started to flirt with other women. Our happy family was broken up. After the divorce, I have been single until now. My ex-husband has now remarried. I I have been living by myself. As a woman, I will also feel lonely. But I have been single until now, and I also have my concerns.
I was worried that the man I found would be as unreliable as my ex-husband. I was afraid of being hurt by marriage again, so I never looked for a wife. I later figured it out that it would be better to live a happy single life than to find a wife. Now I usually travel when I have a rest. Except for feeling lonely at night, most of the time I am very relaxed and comfortable. I lack men around me, so I will fill this gap with my hobbies. After all, the most important thing is that I am happy.
Self-reported Person 2: Ms. Liu is 58 years old
I am 58 years old this year. I am a rural person and grew up in the countryside. I was only 21 years old when I married my husband. Although we didn’t make a lot of money, that kind of A simple and happy life is also our pursuit. We have been together for more than 20 years. We thought we would grow old together, but my husband was tired from working for many years and finally left me because of illness.
I have two sons. My husband and I were very capable when we were young, so we built houses for our two sons very early and prepared wedding gifts. Since my wife passed away, living alone has been very boring. Some women in the village wanted me to find another man, but after hearing what my son said, I gave up this idea completely.
My son said that I am already old. If I find a man who is not suitable, I will face all kinds of conflicts in my life. In the end, I will be unhappy in my later years and the gain will not be worth the loss. I listened carefully and thought about it. I'd better follow my son's advice. I don't want to find a wife. My two sons said they would let me take turns to live in their homes for retirement. I'm still very happy.
I am now living in my son’s home. I am in good health. I usually do some farm work to earn some pocket money. I get along very well with my two daughters-in-law. I help them when I have time. Although my child is a little tired, at least I am happy in my heart. I lack the company of a man now, but I have the care of my two sons beside me, and I think this is enough.
Narrator 3: Ms. Gu is 56 years old
I am 56 years old this year. I never worked when I was young. Since I married my husband, I have been a full-time housewife. Usually, my husband works outside to make money. I take care of the elderly at home and Just take good care of the children, it’s the kind of situation where the male takes the lead and the female takes the lead. I was quite satisfied with my life at that time. My husband made a lot of money, at least it didn’t waste my money. Our life was also very popular with my friends. envious.
But the good times did not last long. Just when my husband and I were about to plan our life for our later years, my husband passed away unexpectedly. I was not prepared for a life alone. My daughter had already married away from home. My daughter is afraid of me when she sees me living alone, so she wants me to find a wife to live with.
I am not short of money now. After my wife passed away, he left a deposit of 600,000 and two houses. I also seriously considered finding a wife, but after dating several men on blind dates, I felt that they were unreliable. They treated me very badly. The feeling is not pure, just for my money, I am not stupid, I later did not want to find a man, but I found a male nanny in his 40s, since male nanny came My life is also full of fun and I am very satisfied.
Today’s topic:
After women are over 55 years old, especially those who have been single for a long time, they will feel lonely. But don’t go looking for a wife. Even if you are looking for a wife, you must have a common topic and three views. , otherwise the combination of two people will be a kind of torture. If this is the case, it is better to live a proud single life, at least make yourself happy.
What do you think a woman should do when she is over 55 and lacks the company of men around her? Everyone is welcome to leave a message and discuss in the comment area below.
