A 43-year-old middle-aged woman has been lying in bed for many days due to serious illness. She cannot get out of bed and cannot take care of herself. She has only two children around her, one who is in school and an elderly mother-in-law. As for her husband, he went to a foreign country because of debts. All his relatives came to visit him every now and then. Everyone told the woman, I'm here to see you. You're fine. You have to be more open-minded and stronger. You have to be more open-minded. It will get better.
Whenever a woman hears these words, he can only smile with tears in his eyes. Only when a woman sees his parents and close relatives will he weakly ask, when are we going to see a doctor? When will you take me to the hospital? Are you collecting money for me? I want to go to the hospital. However, after the woman begged again and again, he was still lying on the cold bed, and no one took him to the hospital.
Is she suffering from a terminal illness? It's not true, it can't be cured, but it's not fatal. An operation costing 50,000 yuan can last for two to three years. Women are saying that if it can be cured, I will cure her disease even if I am trying to sell iron. . But in fact, no one is really willing to sell iron for her, so that she can live a few more years, including her blood relationship.
And there is another very important factor here, which is responsibility. If it can be cured, everyone will be happy. If it cannot be removed from the operating table, no one can bear this responsibility. Those who want to help him are waiting for someone, waiting for her husband to come back to decide whether to treat or not. People always show true love in times of trouble, but what is true love? Only when people are in trouble, sick, and helpless can they truly feel what true love is and what choices are.
A young uncle from the woman’s mother’s family was really heartbroken, but he couldn’t make the decision himself, so he invited a doctor to visit him. Although there was no way to treat him, this was the greatest comfort to this woman in her life. In this way, the woman kept waiting and waiting until she left this world in expectation, but she failed to get the treatment she wished for. At that moment, he didn't feel the family affection or the comfort that love brought to him, and she only felt despair. The saddest thing is that her husband never came back to see her. So, when you see this, you have to understand what is most important in life.
The greatest luck for a woman in this life is to meet a lover who can treat you sincerely, a man who truly loves you and is willing to be responsible for you. The usual noisiness, romance or not, whether you are poor or rich, these are just the comparison demands of people. However, the manifestation of true love for you is that when you are lying on the hospital bed one day, he is willing to take care of you, is willing to save you, is willing to never leave you, is willing to do his best to make you stand up again. The person who will let you live a few more years and make you feel that this world is worth it.
And you have to remember that no matter whether you are a man or a woman, when you are in good health, treat your lover better, be more understanding, and be more tolerant. If you want to eat well, you can go out to eat occasionally and you won’t be short on food. If you want to wear good clothes, you can buy something once in a while and you won’t be short on clothes. Life is only a moment, a matter of opening and closing your eyes.
Husbands and wives should take care of each other, be kind to themselves, be less angry, less likely to get sick, rest when you are tired, and sleep when you are sleepy.
