The daughter-in-law expects her mother-in-law to treat her like her own mother.
There are indeed mothers-in-law who are better than biological mothers in the world, but there are very few. What's more, during the three meals a day, you two couldn't stand each other's friction. You couldn't get rid of each other, but you couldn't live without each other. It was like a dull, painful volcano that wanted to erupt from time to time.
The wife expects her husband to know both hot and cold and understand her own needs like her own shadow.
There is indeed such a good husband in the world, but he belongs to someone else. It's more about you complaining to each other or being indifferent. When two people get along, you feel more lonely than when you look at your shadow.
has many public video accounts that teach you life skills and ways of thinking, and the author is also very attentive. As long as readers read and learn attentively, accumulate and use them, they will undergo good changes.
Changes can only happen to others. why?
Teacher Tang Xiaoxiao has a video, using the eldest lady in "Do you know and " as an example, to explain why the eldest lady with a good background cannot fuck her husband's concubine Lin Xiaoniang. The reason is that she is so stupid that she has the following 3 tricks to let everyone know. Going against the grain:
1, talking always goes off topic: the purpose is A, talking nonsense. (Not able to focus on the key points)
2, clinging to trivial matters: She makes a big show of trivial matters and is reasonable, but does not take advantage of them. (Unconvinced)
3, I don’t know how to find evidence for big things: the law depends on evidence. Who will believe you without evidence? (No wisdom)
reader's message:
reader 1, "This Mandarin makes people feel uncomfortable all over."
reader 2, "Some people say that others are not good at Mandarin every day. Can you get rid of it if you are not used to it? Don't embarrass yourself [laughs] Crying] This kind of woman must always be picky about others in life, and she is struggling with the lack of love in her heart. "
reader 3, "The lady has low EQ and IQ, and lacks rational thinking. What she says is just to vent her emotions, not the truth. She wants to deal with the problem. She must deal with the problem calmly, use facts, look at the overall situation, and focus on the key points. She may be soft-hearted. She has never thought about killing people, all she does is vent. "
Reader 4: I like it very much. Listen to the teacher's class...
Reader 1, did you commit the second problem of the big lady?
What is the purpose of watching the video? If you are not interested in accumulating knowledge and just want to learn or listen to standard Mandarin, I suggest you just listen to Xinwen Lianbo. Reader 2 will not be able to stand this [laughing and crying].
Teacher Tang’s Mandarin is much better than mine, and the subtitles are clear, so there is no problem in understanding him.
Reader 3: Watch the video and analyze and summarize directly, and come to the conclusion that this kind of person can recognize people in life, and when she meets someone like the eldest lady, she knows how to deal with them.
Reader 4: Smartly accumulating knowledge, she not only watched videos, but also signed up for classes.
If the video can't teach you knowledge, just leave it out and don't waste your time commenting.
Videos where you can learn knowledge, but instead you choose someone whose beauty is too high, whose Mandarin is not up to standard, whose teeth are a bit buckled, and whose smile is awkward...isn't this a deliberate act of stupidity?
Especially when you are confused and have no direction in life, study steadily, do everything well, do it well, do it to the best, day after day, year after year, there is no The reason why it doesn't work.
Why did teacher Qian Liqun seize the opportunity to take the Peking University podium?
Because before true luck comes, it is necessary to accumulate knowledge and study hard.
Steve Jobs said: Stay hungry, stay foolish. Be thirsty for knowledge, stay humble.
In front of truly successful (people), maintain a humble and dissatisfied attitude, patiently learn from others, and ask if you don’t understand, even if the way of seeking knowledge is silly [laughing and crying], the knowledge gained is yours, you No one can take away the power.
When you are capable and valuable, and your wings are strong enough, you will find that the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law disappears, your husband becomes caring, and your wife looks at you with affection.
Why?
Who will reject a worthy person, who will push away a person who makes a lot of money? Instead of expecting your mother-in-law and husband to "discover their conscience" and treat you better, it is better to stay humble and thirsty for knowledge, so that you can be guaranteed to build a better self.
