In today’s society, most people still have quite upright views. For those women who are willing to be third parties, everyone does not agree with their behavior. Everyone thinks that this behavior is immoral, and they don't understand why they don't look for good single men, but insist on looking for married men.
Most people think that these women who are willing to be third parties are self-destructive and have no principles. They like to seduce married men to prove their charm and gain a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction. Of course, it's also possible that they are just looking for money. Therefore, most people will hate this kind of women and stay away from them. But there are also a small number of people who believe that these women who are willing to be third parties may have some kind of shortcomings in their hearts and need to use this method to fill the missing piece in their hearts. That's why they are seduced by married men and then willingly become the third party. Of course, it may also be a pure love brain. I thought that no matter how dirty the relationship was, as long as it was labeled as love, it would become noble and beautiful. Well, women who are willing to be a third party usually have these three "purposes". Men, don't understand!
In order to satisfy certain desires of oneself
Satisfying desires here refers to the pursuit of excitement, the pursuit of fashion, proving charm, venting revenge and satisfying sexual desires. This psychological reason is relatively complex, and different mistresses have different reasons. For example, when the mistress phenomenon was frequently reported in the press, and when mistresses became a social phenomenon that can be seen everywhere, some women thought that being a mistress was exciting and fashionable.
They may just follow the trend, or they may just seek excitement for a period of time. As for money and other things, they are just by-products. Such mistresses are even "fancier mistresses", they just take this as "play". There are also some women who want to prove their charm and prove that they are more attractive than their "original spouse". As for that man, it's enough to get him, and he doesn't want to develop. There are also some women who are special. They may have been victims of "mistresses" themselves, or at least were abandoned by men. In order to retaliate and vent, they also chose to be mistresses. "I will rob others just as others rob me." This is like those people who buy stolen bicycles and then buy stolen bicycles after losing them themselves. A relatively rare situation is that women become mistresses to satisfy their sexual desires. They may get sexual satisfaction from this man and cannot extricate themselves.
longs to be cared for and loved
Women are naturally emotionally fragile, and also long to be cared for and loved. The psychology of this type of woman is often affected by her family of origin. She has lacked family care since she was a child. Once someone cares about her, she will be very dependent on this person. This type of woman is often the most likely to become the object of extramarital affairs for married men, and in this regard, some men have very accurate vision, and they deliberately look for this type of woman to start with. Because she wants to be cared for and loved, even if this type of woman knows that the man already has a family, she is reluctant to leave him, and will even do some outrageous things because she wants to be with the man. This type of woman is actually relatively stupid. She will persist to the end even though she knows that her behavior will be morally condemned. However, this type of woman is also the humblest. She just wants more love and care.
I think it’s good to be a mistress and you don’t have to be responsible.
There are still some women who feel that falling in love and getting married is too tiring and not good at all. As a mistress, you only have to meet occasionally and don't have to be responsible for each other. In this way, the relationship between the two people always feels very fresh and not boring at all. She likes this feeling very much, so she enjoys playing the role of a mistress. This type of woman is mostly selfish, greedy for the present, and doesn't care about other people's feelings at all. Her character is really not suitable for living with anyone. She is only suitable for living like this, living a lifestyle that is irresponsible to herself and others.
Emotional message: A truly independent and self-loving woman will not have the idea of becoming a third party, because their life and spiritual world are already self-sufficient, and love is just the icing on the cake, not a necessity to provide help in times of need. Women who will become a third party usually have some problems in themselves and think that such behavior can bring them what they want. As everyone knows, this is not only destroying other people's families, but also pushing yourself into an even worse situation.
