The key
can do everything well, so you don’t have to worry about making money and development. But how do you get things done?
When doing things, most people consider IQ, EQ, and ability, but in fact, these are not the most critical factors. No matter how strong these are, if there is one thing that doesn't work, it will be vetoed, and that is the mood. If the mood is very bad, not in the mood to do things, or even in depression, no matter how strong the IQ, EQ, and ability are, they will all be equal to zero.
Only when people are in the mood can they do things, do it with enthusiasm, happiness and motivation, and get things done.
Between people, whether they are husband and wife, children, family members, colleagues, superiors and subordinates, they should not criticize each other for what they did poorly or what they did not do enough, because that is very depressing and destroys people's mood. It makes people very depressed. When they are not in the mood, they no longer have the motivation to do things. What's more, when they do things with emotions, they often mess up things directly.
Bringing pleasure to each other
What’s even worse is that when they complain about each other, tensions arise, and conflicts arise, in the end they end up not doing things, but resolving conflicts, which brings huge internal friction, let alone doing things. Harmony in the home brings prosperity to all things, and harmony brings wealth, which illustrates the importance of harmony and the huge destructive power of contradictions. Many families are not prosperous and many careers are not going smoothly because there are too many internal conflicts and internal friction.
People who pursue results too much will be too impatient. Nine out of ten things that others do well are only one thing that they don’t do well. Don’t mention the nine things that they did well, and just focus on that one thing. Even if you do well, treating others angrily will make you feel depressed and gloomy. Haste makes waste, and impatientness cannot eat hot tofu. This is what we are talking about. Paying too much attention to results and not taking into account people's feelings. If you lose love, you will lose patience, and a lot of negative energy will be generated and spread around. Destroy people, things, things.
Each other encourages each other.
Conflicts and internal friction are caused by each other's disapproval of each other, complaints and dislike of each other. Accusing, complaining, and hating each other bring bad moods, and bad moods bring damage to everything around them.
We need to recognize and encourage each other so that we can feel better and better, have more and more positive energy, and do things better and better. Even if only one of the ten things is done well, learn to recognize, appreciate, and encourage the other person, and you will get better and better. Therefore, recognizing and encouraging each other brings a good mood, and a good mood brings the construction of everything around you.
people use the spirit of "finding fault with each other" to discover the bad aspects of others, and treat others with negative energy such as disgust, complaints, and accusations, making others feel worse and worse, and of course things will get worse. The worse. At the same time, if you treat him with the same attitude, he will naturally treat you with the same attitude. In this way, in the end, you will actually be hurting yourself.
people should use the spirit of "picking bones within the eggs" to discover the good aspects of others, learn to appreciate others positively and sincerely, recognize and encourage others, and then they will bring positive energy to others, and only then can things be done well. At the same time, it will help others make progress, and in turn, the progress of others will help myself, and I will become happier and happier!
爱
Another key aspect is that you treat others with tolerance and understanding, and in turn others will treat you with tolerance and understanding. This will also establish beautiful interpersonal relationships, nourish each other's souls, and do good things at the same time. You can still be in a good mood every day, why not?
Only when you are in a positive mood can you build your surroundings. When you are in a negative mood, everything you do will be destroyed. Are you willing to send out positive energy to the surroundings and then turn it back to nourish yourself? Or are you willing to send out negative energy, come back in a circle, and "shoot yourself in the foot"?
You must not be a confused person, but a wise person.
