Wedding invitations are called "red fines" by some people, which means that you have to pay money when you receive such invitations. This is why many people don’t like receiving wedding invitations.
In fact, a wedding is just a ceremony. The purpose is to receive blessings from relatives and friends on this day and share the happiness of your wedding.
However, because of the "gifts", weddings have gradually lost their original meaning and become a tool for "recovering costs" or even "making money".
A newlywed couple in Chongqing has become a hot search list because of the incident of "following the gift".
According to netizens, the newlyweds did not invite many people to their wedding, only relatives and some important friends. And this friend who sent the "free gift money" greeting card is one of them.
According to the bride, this friend is her college classmate and roommate in the same dormitory. The relationship has been very good during the four years of college and they have been in constant contact after graduation.
In recent years, due to work, the contact has gradually become less and less. In her heart, this classmate has always been her good friend and good sister.
I invited her to this wedding because I thought we had a good relationship, but I didn’t expect that she directly sent a “free gift money” greeting card, which said “
Dear so-and-so:
I wish you a happy wedding and may we be together forever. Because I will hold a wedding in September this year, so I won’t give any gifts, and you won’t give them to me then. Love you!
The signature is this classmate’s name and date.
After seeing this greeting card, I think it’s my first time. One reaction was: This is not bad! Two sisters are getting married. This is a gratifying event. Those who dare to send greeting cards at the wedding must be true friends and sisters.
But this bride is not like this. I think she thought this greeting card shocked her.
The bride said: I was shocked when I saw this greeting card. I think her behavior is completely unacceptable.
The reason is: the bride thinks that the gift money is for you and me. , In fact, she will not take advantage of anyone. But she behaves like this, it seems that we should "not have contact with each other forever"!
The bride's husband also expressed that he could not accept it, saying that this greeting card was "annoyance" and suggested to his wife. When this friend got married, it would be enough to send a message of blessing. It would be better not to attend the wedding.
Netizens felt that this classmate did something that many people wanted to do but did not dare to do. They called her. "Warrior" said: This warrior did something that many people wanted to do but were embarrassed to do.
This comment attracted the approval of a large number of netizens, with 468,000 likes, which shows that most netizens do not object to this blessing. Method.
Some netizens said: If my good friend does this, I think it is a real good friend.
The author believes that only true friends will consider you. Feelings, even if you are unwilling, you will give some gift money to express it, even if the blessing is not sincere.
Only a true friend will feel that your friendship is not affected by this gift money. This greeting card is her. My sincere blessings.
On the other hand, she is getting married in three months, and maybe her finances are also very tight! It’s okay if her heart comes to her, shouldn’t true friends think about each other?
My dear? Friends, if you receive such a greeting card at a wedding, will you think that such friends cannot get along?
