Bai Mei, a 43-year-old divorced woman introduced by this friend, looks gentle, generous, polite, and has been getting along with 45-year-old Li Qiang for some time.
Li Qiang’s original intention was to find a woman who was about seven or eight years younger than him. 3 But the woman in front of him was only two years younger than him, but what should I say? The most important thing is how well you talk. If two people can't talk, what's the point of having young and pretty faces? Besides, although Bai Mei is only two years younger than him, she is very well-kept, with a well-proportioned figure and delicate light makeup on her face.
Li Qiang has achieved some success in his career. He and his ex-wife have a daughter who is now in college. Five years ago, he got divorced due to emotional discord, and he never looked for her again. There are often little girls around who provoke him, but Li Qiang is focused on his career and does not want to worry about it.
Then why do you want to find another one now? It turned out to be his career, but he took a back seat last year because he had some minor health problems and had an operation. He didn't want to have to worry about it in the future. So under the persuasion of his friends, he decided to find a compatible partner to spend the rest of his life with, and then make the most of the last of his youth, go out and see the world together, and enjoy the peace and quiet of the years.
Previously, there was a 27-year-old female college student in Li Qiang's company who liked him very much, but he felt that she was divorced and she was middle-aged. How many years of youth did she still have? I couldn't delay her, and her conditions were pretty good, so I rejected her cruelly.
Now this Baimei is engaged in art business, and she also has a faint aura of an artist. She will occasionally play the guzheng and so on, and the two of them will have a cup of tea together. This is Li Qiang’s future retirement life.
are all adults, Li Qiang also expressed his feelings to Bai Mei. If it is suitable for the two of them, they can get a certificate together, or if Bai Mei has any expectations in her heart, it is okay to have a wedding. But Bai Mei always refused his request for a certificate. She felt that the two of them were suitable and could go together. There was no need to get a certificate.
Li Qiang is actually a traditional person. She feels that two people must be legally recognized together. They are people who will spend the rest of their lives together. They cannot be so unclear. For this reason, the two people also have a rift. Li Qiang is still thinking about buying a farmhouse or a villa in the countryside together in the name of two people in the future. If they don't have a certificate, can they still buy it together?
Under Li Qiang's request, Bai Mei also expressed her last resort and admitted her mistakes to Li Qiang, hoping to get his forgiveness. It turns out that in Li Qiang's eyes, the 43-year-old Bai Mei is actually 51 years old. They were introduced by a friend before, and the friend did not verify it carefully. At that time, Bai Mei also deliberately said that she was a few years younger because she needed to do business.
Later, I didn’t think about Li Qiang, but the two of them got along very well. She even dared not tell Li Qiang her actual age for fear that Li Qiang would dislike her. Bai Mei has a daughter who is already married and is about to become a grandmother.
At this time, Li Qiang was worried. Although he still had feelings for Bai Mei, it was far different from his expectations. He originally wanted to find someone younger than himself, but turned out to be so much older than him, and women will age faster in the future. , In another ten years, won’t she become a standard old woman?
Bai Mei said that she had made a mistake in hiding it first, so even if Li Qiang proposed breaking up, she would happily accept it, and she was grateful to Li Qiang for spending this sweet time with her, which would become a precious memory in the future.
The more generous, gentle and considerate Bai Mei becomes, the more entangled Li Qiang becomes. Alas, he really doesn’t know how to choose.
is written at the back:
This is something a friend encountered a while ago, so he adopted a pseudonym. However, several months have passed now, and they still have not broken up or obtained a certificate. Instead, they have chosen to continue to maintain such a relationship.
As for whether they will still be together in the future? This still requires asking the parties themselves what they mean.
Marriage is indispensable for trivial matters. Whether it is the original couple or the partner couple, they will go through many trials and tribulations. Marriage can't be perfect. It's true that like Li Qiang and Bai Mei, if they can talk about it and reach a certain level of compatibility, why should they worry about their age sometimes?
If you choose to divorce because of novelty, you will continue to repeat the process of pursuing novelty throughout your life. If you choose to divorce because of quarrels and conflicts, it will be difficult for you to achieve anything real in your life.
I hope we can all cherish each other .
discussion: What do you think Li Qiang should choose?
