My grandma asked me to be able to cook and do housework since I was a child. It is believed that housework is an "exclusive task" for girls and that boys do not need to learn these. As a child, I believed this. It's a shame to think that a girl can't cook. In fact, my grandma doe

My grandma asked me to be able to cook and do housework since I was a child. It is believed that housework is an "exclusive task" for girls and that boys do not need to learn these.

When I was a child, I firmly believed this. It's a shame to think that a girl can't cook.

Actually, my grandma doesn’t like to cook, and she didn’t teach me how to cook systematically. She always cooked and asked me to watch, but I didn't learn it systematically. It was all just messing around. I was able to cook normal meals by myself since I was nine years old. Over the past ten years, my skills have been recognized by my family, but I couldn't learn how to make dumplings.

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For this, my grandma scolded me many times and even scolded me. The reason is that if you leave your in-laws’ house in the future and your in-laws’ family wants to eat, what will you do?

My mission when I get married is to make dumplings for other people to eat?

When I was a child, I even thought how useless I was. I also thought that I had to master how to make dumplings. I was even very anxious at one point because I couldn’t make dumplings, even though I hated eating dumplings.

Later I went to school and moved to the city, where I met many girls and many boys.

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I found that girls do not need to be able to make dumplings. You don’t have to make dumplings yourself to eat them. Boys can also cook. It is normal for girls not to know how to cook, just as it is normal for boys not to know how to cook.

I suddenly felt that the concept of honor and disgrace established by my grandma was lagging behind. Also, people who cook are generally not picky eaters.