For women, marriage is related to their happiness in the second half of their lives. Only by meeting the right person can they live the life they want. However, people's hearts are very complicated. Sometimes they marry for love as they wish, but they will lose after marriage. It caused discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, so that the marriage relationship came to an end.
Writer Bondarev once said: The root of all human suffering is the lack of a sense of boundaries. It is true that you need to pay attention to size when getting along with others, and family members are no exception. Only by maintaining a suitable distance can people feel relaxed and happy. However, some people do not understand, especially selfish people who often slander their family members. In the name of doing things that harm others and benefit oneself, once the income does not meet one's own psychological expectations, he will show his ugly face, as if everyone owes him, but everyone knows that there is a limit to people's patience, and those who are only for their own selfish interests It is also doomed to humiliate itself.
Xu Lei also got married out of love. She thought she could live the life she wanted after marriage, but she didn't expect to meet a troubled mother-in-law who turned a good home into a mess. Before the wedding, the bride price of 60,000 yuan was negotiated by her mother-in-law into 30,000 yuan. She and her husband agreed to hold the wedding in a hotel, but her mother-in-law said it was too expensive, so she only set up a few banquet tables in the yard. Xu Lei I looked forward to the romantic scenes during countless weddings, but was ultimately disillusioned because of my mother-in-law's interference.
As for breaking off the engagement, Xu Lei also thought about it, but she felt that she was in love with her husband and was afraid that her family would lose face, so she repeatedly compromised, so she chose to get married, but she still underestimated her mother-in-law's greed. The next day Her mother-in-law used the excuse that the house needed to be renovated and asked her daughter-in-law to use all the gifts and dowry first. In order to avoid the deterioration of the relationship with her mother-in-law, Xu Lei chose to compromise again, but in the end the house was simply renovated and she could not use so much money. , and the rest went into the mother-in-law’s pocket.
Because of this, Xu Lei had no good impressions of her, and her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law began to quarrel with each other. But what Xu Lei didn't expect was that her mother-in-law was so thick-skinned. They had just had a quarrel in the morning, but in the afternoon she was all smiles. The ground asked for money, as if the previous conflict did not exist. Xu Lei thought that she could not do this. She always felt angry in her heart, but had nowhere to vent it.
Until later, perhaps after asking her daughter-in-law for money several times to no avail, her mother-in-law asked for her salary. Xu Lei naturally disagreed, and she was ordered to be evicted by her mother-in-law. Her husband's defense from the beginning to his inaction at the end was deeply felt. It broke Xu Lei's heart, and the two eventually ended up divorcing.
After the divorce, Xu Lei started a new life. She spent all her time and energy on work, trying to make herself forget the unhappiness of the past. Perhaps as Sanmao said: Sometimes marriage can also make a woman lose herself. , otherwise, there should be many more outstanding women in the world. After staying away from a bad marital relationship, Xu Lei achieved better results in her career. On the other hand, her husband felt guilty about his ex-wife because of the breakdown of his marriage, and he became decadent.
The only thing that remained unchanged was Xu Lei’s ex-mother-in-law. Later, she learned from somewhere that Xu Lei had made a fortune, and took the initiative to find her again. She still had the same smile, but what she said was the same as before: Daughter-in-law, as long as you You can vent your anger however you want about remarrying my son, and I promise that I will never interfere in your lives again. Looking at her ex-mother-in-law's insincere attitude, Xu Lei knew that she was not doing it for her son, but that she wanted to use herself as a cash machine. For her, dignity didn't matter, only interests were important. So he replied coldly: Impossible, you are not worthy of my poverty alleviation.
The relationship between people requires sincerity, equal treatment and mutual respect, but for selfish people, they will only focus on immediate interests, even if there is no dignity, it does not matter, as long as there is gain, the bottom line and principles can be trampled , but little do they know that what they do will be disgusting, and no one else can stand it. In the end, they will only choose to stay away, or even ask for too much, and they will suffer the consequences.
Especially those who rely on their old age to sell their old age, the older they get, the less they understand the principles of life and doing things. Instead, they fall into a vicious cycle without realizing it. They cannot listen to other people's opinions and only put themselves first. They are destined to be unable to handle interpersonal relationships well. Nor can he live in harmony with his family. #emotion##emotional office##marriage#
