This is the first time I write an article about marriage and family. Perhaps it is because I have been exposed to more divorce cases recently, and I have a deeper understanding of marriage and family.
Why do you want to get married? What are you getting married for? Have something to rely on? Carrying on the family line? Is there someone with you in an empty house? This all needs to be thought through. The best answer I have ever heard: I hope that when you get married, you have met a soul that is highly compatible with you. No matter what the ups and downs of his life will be in the future, you are willing to muster up the courage to accompany him for the rest of your long life. Entering into marriage is to make each other happy. Life is full of meaning.
Life is not always smooth sailing. Today there is a luminous cup of fine wine, but tomorrow there may be only one steamed bun for two people. When choosing a person, you must have the confidence to accompany him in his glory, and you must also have the determination to accompany him through hardships and hard work. A family is never something that one person should do, but is a shared responsibility of both parties. Therefore, when the family encounters changes, perhaps your restrained consumption behavior is the greatest consideration and encouragement for him, and it is also the best love.
Communicate when there are conflicts. As time goes by, it is inevitable that the passion of newlyweds will gradually fade away. Angry is never a way of communication. Only when both parties express their thoughts effectively can they better understand each other.
