Nowadays, many people are single children. The most common question asked when going out is why don't you have a second or third child? It seems like we hear this everywhere now.
Parents advise us to have more children, so that the children will have a companion and leave a family for the children. In the future, when we are old, the children will be alone. If we have more children, they can help each other if they have difficulties in the future.
But does having more children really help each other? When we were children, we had many brothers and sisters, and we were very affectionate as a family wearing the same clothes. But do we still think this way when we get married?
After getting married, we have our own small family, and the brothers and sisters may have to stand aside. However, the relationship between parents and brothers and sisters is not bad, but once the parents grow old, can the brothers and sisters still live in peace with each other?
Grandpa Wang’s advice after retirement
When Grandpa Wang was young, there were many brothers and sisters in the family. In feudal society, boys were always favored over daughters, and Grandpa Wang’s family was no exception. There was a brother and a sister in Grandpa Wang’s family. They were very close when they were young. It's like wearing a pair of pants.
Grandpa Wang is the eldest son in the family. In the eyes of his parents, the eldest son must be sensible and let his younger brothers and sisters do everything. Of course, Grandpa Wang is no exception. At that time, Grandpa Wang's family was very poor and there were endless housework at home every day.
If you don’t work, you won’t have centimeters, and if you don’t have centimeters, you won’t be able to share food. They were all studying at that time, but the family’s money could only support one child to go to school. Grandpa Wang was the eldest son of the family, so it was natural that he should give up the quota to Younger brother and sister, but the younger sister is a girl and will get married sooner or later, so the place in school was given to the younger brother.
In this way, Grandpa Wang lost the opportunity to go to school and became a farmer at home. His younger brother did very well in school. Finally, after graduating from junior high school, he learned a trade, that is, being a doctor. Grandpa Wang's younger brother opened a clinic and the business was booming. .
Soon Grandpa Wang’s younger brother found a wife. After all, he has skills, and there are still many women who are willing to marry him. But Grandpa Wang is not so lucky. Grandpa Wang is almost 30 years old and has not yet married. His parents are very worried. in a hurry.
After all, Grandpa Wang’s younger brothers are married, and their children are ready to be married, but Grandpa Wang doesn’t even have a partner. In the end, Grandpa Wang went on a blind date with a girl. The girl liked Grandpa Wang very much because Grandpa Wang was honest and honest.
So the two of them soon settled down, but the girl was engaged to someone. The girl secretly went on a blind date with Grandpa Wang behind her parents’ back. When he learned that the girl was engaged, Grandpa Wang backed down. He definitely had no chance. .
However, the girl was very determined at this time and insisted on marrying Grandpa Wang. However, when the girl got engaged, others gave her an engagement fee of 800. In those days, 800 was a sky-high price of gift. Grandpa Wang was willing to risk everything to marry this girl. .
So Grandpa Wang raised money everywhere. The first thing Grandpa Wang thought of was his younger brother. After all, his younger brother also contributed a lot to his studies. But before Grandpa Wang could speak, his younger brother decisively refused, saying that he had no money. When borrowing money, Grandpa Wang actually knew that his younger brother was rich, but he was worried that he would not be able to repay it.
Grandpa Wang had no choice but to think of other ways. In the end, Grandpa Wang sold all the pigs and cows in his family. You must know that the pigs and cows at that time were the lifeblood of the family. However, in order to marry his wife, Grandpa Wang Forget it.
After getting married, Grandpa Wang soon had a son and a daughter. The family also lived a happy life. Grandpa Wang was honest and loved to study. Soon he succeeded in starting a business through his own efforts and made a lot of money. money.
After Grandpa Wang made money, his younger brothers and sisters came, and they stepped into the door more and more times. At that time, the younger brothers and sisters said that they also wanted to start a business and asked Grandpa Wang to borrow some money. At that time, Grandpa Wang felt that they were all one family and had everything. They were related by blood, so they secretly lent the money.
Grandpa Wang and his wife were kept in the dark at that time. When Grandpa Wang and his wife learned about this, they became furious and had a big fight with him, saying that Grandpa Wang only cared about his brothers and sisters and never cared about her and her children.
In the end, Grandpa Wang’s brother and sister’s investment failed, and now Grandpa Wang’s money will not come back. But Grandpa Wang’s wife wants Grandpa Wang to find a way to get the money back, because it is the family’s living expenses. Wang Grandpa said that I couldn't do that. After all, we are all a family. They are my biological sisters and brothers. If you lose, you will lose. You can still make money, but if you lose your relatives, you will never have them again.
At this time, Grandpa Wang's wife was heartbroken. In Grandpa Wang's mind, the friendship between brothers and sisters was greater than the friendship between his wife and children. From then on, his wife and Grandpa Wang had a rift.
It wasn’t until Grandpa Wang retired that he really saw the faces of his brothers and sisters. Grandpa Wang left a lot of pension money after his retirement. After retirement, Grandpa Wang’s younger brothers and sisters invited him to come over to provide for their retirement, with the excuse that the family had companionship for their retirement. .
At that time, Grandpa Wang’s younger brother and sister were running other industries, and they even asked Grandpa Wang to come over and help them take a look. Grandpa Wang thought that they were a blood-related family. He went, but something happened to him only a week after he left.
suddenly fell to the ground. Finally, Grandpa Wang woke up and found that he was in the hospital. He was sick, cerebral infarction . Fortunately, he was sent to the hospital in time, otherwise he would have died. Grandpa Wang's condition cannot be left with his brother no matter what. My sister is there.
So my brother and sister asked Grandpa Wang to call my sister-in-law quickly and ask her to take you home. In the end, Grandpa Wang realized that my sister and brother had ulterior motives. The property they invested in was in debt, and they wanted me to go because they wanted to use me. pension money.
And when I was discharged from the hospital, they actually asked me to pay them back the hospital expenses. The money I lent them has not been paid back yet. They actually asked me for the medical expenses. In an instant, I saw clearly what they were doing. true colors.
My wife took me home and took good care of me. I regretted my attitude towards my wife, but at this time my wife gave me a divorce agreement and asked me to sign it.
It wasn’t until that moment that I truly understood that my wife was the person I was closest to, and that my brothers and sisters were all interested in each other. If I didn’t have money, I guess they wouldn’t be so close to me.
So be kind to your partner these days. After all, it is your partner who will accompany you until you grow old, and your partner is the one who sincerely treats you well.
