At 36 years old, I want to start over. If you want to change, you should first change your personality, just like upgrading your mobile phone to the latest operating system and giving yourself some hints every day. I believe it will definitely change your thinking and personality

2024/04/2723:57:33 emotion 1376

36 years old, I want to start over.

If you want to change, you should first change your personality, just like upgrading your mobile phone to the latest operating system and giving yourself some hints every day. I believe it will definitely change your thinking and personality.

In the past, I was hesitant in doing things and could not make decisions quickly. This caused me to miss many opportunities, including career and love. Although I had clearly seen the reality, it was probably because I could not face it bravely and was unable to do so. Make a decision. This shows that my heart is not strong enough and I am not mature enough. So I decided that the first point is to change my hesitant character, accept reality, face reality, and stop escaping.

[Be decisive in doing things]: Do things quickly and resolutely, don’t delay, analyze the pros and cons, make prompt decisions, and develop this habit. If you can’t do it slowly at first, at least don’t get entangled. If you can’t pick it up, put it down temporarily and do it. Something else.

[Be confident, be calm]: The reason for hesitation should be lack of confidence, so give yourself a hint every day, I am great, I can, I can do it, I am the best, so you can constantly remind yourself hint.

【Positive】: A positive attitude helps to achieve anything, just like law of attraction , the more you believe, the closer you are. So I have to maintain an optimistic and positive attitude towards things around me. Only in this way can everything develop in a good direction.

I decided to strengthen these three points of psychological suggestion every day. If it is too much, it will be useless. If I can do three points, it is enough.

To be continued

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