I once saw this sentence on Zhihu: "Why should people be loyal to marriage?"
Among them, a highly praised answer is this: Loyalty to marriage is loyalty to the life you choose.
After Xiaofang got married to her husband Xiaolin, she chose to abandon her husband regardless of her family. She went away to another country with another man and gave birth to a child to him. Who knew that not long after, the man Xiaofang cheated on abandoned her. .
Afterwards, Xiaofang ran back to her husband's house with the cheating man's child, hoping that her husband could re-accept her.
Faced with this situation, Xiaofang's father-in-law directly made two requests. If Xiaofang agreed, then the Lin family could still accept her. Seeing this, Xiaofang agreed without any hesitation, but then Xiaofang changed her mind again. The scene was even more chaotic.
What happened in the meantime?
It turned out that Xiaofang met a man while working outside, and then the two chose to live together and gave birth to a child. However, the man was not willing to take responsibility for Xiaofang, and Xiaofang made demands to the man, hoping that he would Able to afford the child's expenses.
After hearing Xiaofang's request, the man cruelly blocked her. Seeing this, Xiaofang made a decision that shocked everyone.
When the mediator asked Xiaofang "what to do in the future", Xiaofang said that she only hoped that her husband's family could accept her again.
For a moment, the mediator was also dumbfounded.
Immediately afterwards, Xiaofang explained to the mediator that she actually had a husband, and the man with whom she had children was not her husband, but the person she cheated on. Now, the other party did not want her, so Xiaofang just She wants to be accepted by her husband, return to her husband's home, and hope that her husband can accept the child born from her affair.
Obviously, most people find it incomprehensible when they hear this. After all, cheating in marriage is wrong in itself. You also have children with the cheating partner, and at the same time, you want to get your husband's understanding after being abandoned by the cheating partner. .
But in this regard, Xiaofang does not think that she is going too far. Firstly, she did not want to marry her husband but was forced by her adoptive parents. Secondly, her husband is a disabled person and she has no relationship with her husband. But now, she hopes to get help from her husband when something happens.
To be honest, Xiaofang was the betrayer in this marriage, but she always believed that her husband owed her something. Therefore, she confidently told the mediator that she and her husband had only known each other for a month before they got married passively. , but what she didn’t expect was that the other party was not only a disabled person, but also had a violent personality and would get angry at her at every turn.
In desperation, Xiaofang had no choice but to go out to work, and later met her cheating partner.
According to Xiaofang's opinion, the fault of cheating was not on her, but on her husband's inability to give her the "love" she wanted. Therefore, now that she has been abandoned by the person she cheated on, her husband should accept her.
Faced with Xiaofang's request that she cheated and want to come back, her husband Xiao Lin didn't say anything. The father-in-law on the side said directly: It's not impossible for you to come back, but you have to agree to two small requests. One is that you cheated. The child you have must bear our Lin family name. Secondly, you can no longer go out to work .
Many people may wonder why the father-in-law is so tolerant of his cheating daughter-in-law and is willing to accept the child born of the cheating daughter-in-law?
In fact, Xiaofang's father-in-law was not happy, but in view of his son's situation and the principle of not publicizing the family scandal, he reluctantly accepted it all after discussing it with his son.
I thought that Xiaofang would be happy to accept the Lin family's concession, but what she didn't expect was that not only did Xiaofang not agree quickly, but after her husband Xiaolin made a reasonable request "The two must have a common child in the future" , but she said something shocking.
Xiaofang said, I don’t agree, let’s get divorced!
And the reason why she was so "ignorant" and even filed for divorce from Xiao Lin, who gave her the steps, was that when she returned to her husband's house, she wanted to find a safe place that could provide food, drink and accommodation for her and her children. But after careful consideration, she felt that she and her husband Xiao Lin had no feelings and could not live with each other.
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