#是什么意思是什么意思# Whether there is pure emotion between men and women is a question of the century. Some people are skeptical, and some are in favor. Mother-in-law is right, and public opinion is right. In the face of the physical phenomenon of "opposites attract and same sex repel",

Take the "confidante" that men yearn for as an example. Why are men keen to label a female friend a "confidante"? First of all, the relationship between this "beautiful woman" and him is extraordinary, at least the intimacy is better than that of ordinary friends; secondly, the two have endless topics to talk about, and they have a lot of resonance; The last point is very crucial, this "beautiful woman" must be someone with good looks or A beautiful woman with a good figure.

When a man defines the relationship between a woman and him as a "confidant", he does not say whether he has a "negative distance" relationship with the "confidant". At least, his subconscious has already made the woman "intimate" with other friends of the opposite sex. Divided into "degrees", this "degree of intimacy" has an extremely strong "private" component, and is of a nature that can only be "exclusively enjoyed" and cannot be "shared" or "shared" with others. So here’s the question, you are not someone else’s husband or boyfriend, why can’t you accept a “beauties” interacting with other men?

Tear off the fig leaf, everything is revealed. The so-called "confidante" is actually just a man who puts vulgarity into an "elegant" package.

So, what about the “male besties” that women talk about?

The "male bestie" I heard so often is a bit unexpected. Men's "confidantes" still dare not openly appear in movies and TV dramas. Yes, it is relatively vague, but "male best friends" have been on camera. What's funny is that the relationship between "male best friends" and the female protagonist in some dramas, After several episodes of harassment, the "male bestie" finally picked up the female protagonist. For example, Liu Xiaojie and "male bestie" Qian Feng in " Xiaominjia" were so pure at the beginning. At least Qian Feng knew Liu Xiaojie's coldness, hotness, and heart. In the end, this honest "male bestie" ", after holding it back until finally it appeared, and soaked Liu Xiaojie.

The word "best friend" refers to the relationship between same-sex people who talk about everything. They are not sisters but are better than sisters. is used by modern women on a friend of the opposite sex with whom they have a close relationship, and becomes a "male bestie" that does not sound suspicious. Yes, people's social level is not limited to those of the same sex. But, can women really talk to their "male best friends" about everything?

It is so normal for best friends of the same sex to finish complaining and celebrate by drinking and sleeping together drunkenly. But if we repeat the same scene as "Best Boyfriend", it depends on whether the alcohol concentration has reached the level of "deep coma" for the two of them. Otherwise, it is difficult to tell whether what follows is a "story" or an "accident".

Whether it is a "confidant" or a "male bestie", If there is a pure relationship between a man and a woman that "can't mess with each other", the two people, not one of them, but both of them, will understand that "we have no chance" and can control themselves. If you don't get ahead, don't be tempted.

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