A poor family has a son who is in debt and has been busy all his life, but they still don’t know whether the son can get a wife.
Preferring boys over girls kills people, which has led to many people who own houses and cars now not being able to marry wives. There is a saying in the countryside in my hometown. When you give birth to a son, you scream with joy. When the son grows up, and he marries a wife, he starts to divide houses. Divide the stove, the eldest son takes the pot, the younger son takes the ladle, and a pair of fire tongs. The two of them are vying for it. If you don't let me, I won't let you. In the end, they start fighting. The poor old couple is left alone, no one wants it.
Whether in rural areas or in cities, the idea of ​​favoring boys over girls has always existed, especially those with good family conditions and money, the more they want to have sons because they are afraid that no one will inherit their property. If everyone If you still have this kind of thinking, it is very scary. If this continues for a few years, you will have a house, a car, and savings, but you will also not be able to marry a wife. Now, whether in rural or urban areas, there has been a family with several brothers. , all of them are singles and can’t get a wife. It’s not that they don’t want to find a wife, it’s that there are really too few girls now. Divorced women with children have become a hot commodity. There is now a threshold for wanting to be a live-in son-in-law, and the man still has to If you bring a betrothal gift, there will be more monks and less rice.
0 If you don’t believe me, you can ask your children how many boys and how many girls are there in the class now. You will know as soon as you ask. The ratio of boys to girls is now very imbalanced. The era of raising children to provide for old age has passed, not to mention that our pension system and medical system are slowly improving and improving. Why make yourself so tired? It would be nice to just let nature take its own course when it comes to having a boy or a girl. Finally, I want to ask everyone, are there many bachelors in your village? Please leave a message in the comment area
