We live in a big social family. Due to various subjective and objective reasons, certain relationships will always occur between people in the interaction of social life, and various relationships are relatively complex. It can be said that Various and colorful. And human emotional factors often make the relationships between people appear very subtle and realistic. Here, a simple list of 10 types of interpersonal relationships is enough to show the diversity, complexity and reality of interpersonal relationships.
Type 1, working relationship: people leave and the tea is cool. The ancients said, "Iron-made camp and flowing soldiers". Relatively speaking, most of the employees in a unit or company come from all over the world and come together for a common goal. Therefore, most of the relationships between work colleagues are temporary combinations. Except for a few Except for special circumstances, when the partnership is over, everyone goes their separate ways, clap their hands and leave. This is especially true after retirement. Most of the time, "tea gets cold as soon as people leave."
Type 2, blood relationship: constant separation. Although the current family relationship seems to be much weaker, after all, "blood is thicker than water", and as far as blood relationships are concerned, most people will not let go easily. Due to the development and changes of the times, blood and family ties have objectively faded, and subjective interests are also an important factor. However, blood relationship is always a relationship of "breaking bones and connecting tendons", and most of them are still difficult to break away.
Type 3, utilization relationship: use it if it is beneficial. This is a very real relationship in real life. They only use each other for their own interests. Sometimes it is even a naked financial relationship, power trading, power money trading, power sex trading, money sex trading, etc. . This relationship of mutual utilization is purely for use only if it is beneficial, and bye bye if it is not beneficial. After mutual use is finished, there may be no relationship at all.
Type 4, fair-weather relationship: calling each other brothers. On the surface, they are very lively and very close. They get together every once in a while and get drunk. In fact, they are just a group of fair-weather friends getting together to have a drunken life. Once they encounter something and need help, they all stay away. Having wine and meat is brotherhood, but not having wine and meat is bullshit.
Type 5, upper and lower relationship: be cautious. Generally speaking, in the relationship between superiors and subordinates, as a subordinate, you will be cautious in everything. If you can meet a kind and tolerant boss, you are lucky. Otherwise, you must obey orders, obey instructions, work hard, avoid making mistakes, and do well. Otherwise, there will be little hope for promotion and salary increase.
Type 6, confidant relationship: sympathy and sympathy. It is rare to have a close friend in life. As close friends with the same or similar personalities, interests, and circumstances, most people will love, sympathize, and support each other. In real life, there are not many people who can truly be considered close friends, but this kind of relationship still exists objectively, so it is also very valuable and really needs to be cherished.
Type 7, contractual relationship: clear and clear. Sometimes the relationship between people, in addition to doing business, negotiating sales, signing leases, etc., whether it is an oral agreement or a written treaty, can be "brothers settle accounts clearly", and be clear about everything they do. , frank and clear, this kind of interpersonal relationship should be relatively reliable and able to get along with each other for a long time.
Type 8, ambiguous relationship: sneaking. In real life, some people's relationships are not so upright. Whether they are working together to engage in some illegal and shady activities, or having illicit relationships between men and women of the opposite sex, etc., the relationship seems to be ambiguous, sneaky, unclear, and shady.
Type 9, lover relationship: fear. Among the many relationships between men and women, the relationship between lovers is an improper and abnormal relationship between men and women that exists in reality. For the sake of selfish desires, he does not hesitate to cheat, seek excitement, and betray his marriage and family. However, he knows that he is wrong and immoral, so he is always on tenterhooks and fearful, always afraid that one day something will be revealed.
Type 10, husband and wife relationship: open and honest.A truly loving relationship between like-minded and loving couples must treat each other sincerely and honestly. This kind of sincere relationship between husband and wife is beautiful, happy and sweet, and it is rare. The most valuable thing between husband and wife is mutual love, mutual respect and trust. Therefore, if the relationship between husband and wife can be honest with each other and get along harmoniously and harmoniously, then it should be cherished very much. What do you think?
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