Some people regard marriage as a child's play, and do some immoral things regardless of the feelings of their wife and children. Ethics and morals are worthless in his/her eyes, and in the end the wife and children are separated.
And some people, knowing that the other person has a family, stay with the other person regardless, do things that hurt the other person's wife and children, but declare to the outside world that they are the true love.
The so-called true love is completely based on one's own happiness on the pain of others. What kind of true love is this kind of true love? Can you feel at ease with what you have stolen? To be honest, how many people who betrayed their marriage and then remarried lived happily in the end?
Once the so-called novelty is over, whose life is not a piece of cake? Marriage is about mutual loyalty, mutual respect and understanding, rather than blindly complaining and asking for things. If you can be considerate and understanding of each other, then your marriage will be happy and happy. Otherwise, it will be a piece of cake.
Event review: Twenty-five years ago, Yang Gufeng (pseudonym) met his wife Liu Yulan (pseudonym) through someone. The two hit it off and soon entered the marriage hall hand in hand. After the marriage, the husband and wife followed each other. Yang Gufeng and Liu Yulan were very affectionate. . The arrival of
's son Yang Bo (pseudonym) added a lot of laughter to their small family. The family lived together happily. In order to make their life better, Liu Yulan chose to sell insurance, while Yang Gufeng chose to sell tea. .
Although life is dull, they all feel happy because the family can live together. But as time went by, because Yang Gufeng's tea business failed, he and Liu Yulan began to quarrel.
At this time, his son Yang Bo also went to join the army, and they were the only two people left at home. Because their son was not at home, there were more quarrels between them, and their relationship gradually faded.
Soon after, a newcomer Zhang Li (pseudonym) came to the insurance company where Liu Yulan worked. Because Liu Yulan was the best-performing employee in the company, the company leaders arranged for her to take Zhang Li to run insurance.
Because she did not have a daughter, and although Zhang Li was not very old, she was very good at talking. After getting along for a long time, Liu Yulan treated her like a daughter. She tried her best to teach Zhang Li how to do insurance.
Because Zhang Li was Liu Yulan's proud apprentice, she took her home to play with her from time to time. Zhang Li and Yang Gufeng also became familiar with each other.
But what Liu Yulan never imagined was that Zhang Li and Yang Gufeng would both betray her, and she was the last to know. She and Yang Gufeng eventually divorced because of this.
When Liu Yulan and Yang Gufeng divorced, their son Yang Bo was still in the army and had not retired. Later, for the sake of Yang Bo's future life, Liu Yulan and Yang Gufeng agreed to leave a whole house in the family to Yang Bo when they divorced, and Yang Gufeng left home.
Yang Bo only learned about the fact that his parents were divorced after he was discharged from the army, but at that time, Yang Bo had an urban registered permanent residence, while Yang Gufeng had a rural registered permanent residence.
Due to some reasons, he was unable to transfer the house to Yang Bo as he wished, so the property certificate of the house was still registered in Yang Gufeng's name, and the two parties had no objection.
Yang Gufeng later married Zhang Li, and Zhang Li gave birth to a son. Ten years later, Yang Bo and his father Yang Gufeng completely broke up because of that house.
The reason was that Yang Gufeng, for the sake of his younger son's future life, came back to fight with Yang Bo for the house that he had agreed to give to Yang Bo when he and Liu Yulan divorced.
The father and son fought over this. Yang Gufeng was slightly injured in the dispute, and he was kicked out by his son. He had no choice but to sleep in his car for two nights, and finally rented a cheap rental house. Room.
In desperation, he had to find reporters and mediators, hoping to get the house back with their help.
Then, under the leadership of Sister Yang Bo, a group of reporters came to Yang Bo's house. However, no matter how hard the reporter knocked on the door, no one responded or opened the door. The reporter had no choice but to call Yang Bo.
On the phone, Yang Bo admitted that he had beaten his father, but he refused to meet. Later, under the constant persuasion of reporters, Yang Bo agreed to meet with reporters.
After the meeting, Yang Bo told reporters and the mediator that his mother and father had a dispute that day, and then his father tried to beat his mother, and he beat her until her whole body was bruised.
After seeing this, he stepped forward to stop him and accidentally injured his father. Yang Bo admitted that he had always had a good relationship with his father before that.
In order for his mother to have enough money to renovate his house and get married, he went to the countryside alone in the scorching sun to do business for a three thousand yuan insurance policy.
As for his father, not only did he not help him, he also did not come to attend their wedding when he and his wife held their wedding. He did not resent his father for this.
But one day after he went out, his father suddenly came to the house with some strangers. Without saying a word, he started measuring the area of the house. The reason was that his father wanted to renovate the first floor into a mahjong room for rent.
He was very angry when he found out because his father had not mentioned this idea to him during this period. In addition, the house was renovated with his own money later, so he firmly disagreed with his father changing the first floor into a mahjong room for rent.
Contrast Yang Gufeng denied that he did not pay for the renovation of the house. He told reporters that when Yang Bo first retired from the army, he did not go out to work because of illness. He also gave Yang Bo 2,000 yuan a month for living expenses. This payment lasted for three months. .
Later, the house became dilapidated, so he spent 100,000 yuan from his own pocket to renovate the house with Liu Yulan and her son. At that time, it was agreed that he had residency rights, and his name was always on the property certificate. So he felt that this house was his.
He had the right to dispose of this house. Liu Yulan was very angry when she heard that. Then Liu Yulan showed everyone a list of all the expenses when building the house, including invoices for purchasing materials, and the receipts for various expenses she gave to , the foreman .
The reporter looked through the relevant invoices and receipts and it was indeed what Liu Yulan said. Later, Liu Yulan said that they were overwhelmed at the beginning and called Yang Gufeng to help.
At that time, they did promise Yang Gufeng that he would have the right to live in this house for three months. Later, Yang Gufeng also took his second wife and children to live on the first floor. She and her son's family lived on the second and third floors respectively. , everyone has always been in peace.
But since Yang Gufeng privately brought people to measure the first floor and decided to renovate it into a mahjong room, and almost beat his daughter-in-law, when she found out, she firmly disagreed because they had already negotiated to give this house to their son when they divorced.
Moreover, Yang Gufeng did not pay for the renovation of the house later, and the house in Yang Gufeng's hometown was expropriated and received a total of 310,000 in expropriation. Yang Gufeng did not give Yang Bo a penny.
Not only did he not contribute any money when Yang Bo got married, he also didn't show up on the day of Yang Bo's wedding, so no matter what, she would never agree to let Yang Gufeng decorate the first floor as a mahjong room.
At this time, Yang Bo's wife complained that she had never met her father-in-law when she and her husband got married, and she had not eaten anything bought by her father-in-law when she was pregnant. Even after she gave birth, her father-in-law did not come to visit the child at home.
My father-in-law didn’t know whether the child was a boy or a girl. Later, my father-in-law and his family moved to live on the first floor, and he was indifferent to their family. Because I objected to my father-in-law renovating the first floor into a mahjong room.
My father-in-law held a grudge for this and cut off their water and electricity every day, as well as cutting off network cables and other things. Even if they moved the water meter, electricity meter and network cable to the second floor, they were still destroyed by their father-in-law, which made them very angry.
The reporter then asked Yang Gufeng why he went back on his word. He acquiesced in the fact that he had betrayed the marriage, but he said that he now regrets that his decision to leave the house to Yang Bo was too hasty.
Because at that time I did not think that I would remarry and have children. But after getting together with Zhang Li, he decided to have a child with Zhang Li for the sake of Zhang Li's rest of his life.
Because Zhang Li was twenty-four years younger than him and still very young, he felt that it would be very unfair to Zhang Li if he did not have a child with Zhang Li.
But since the birth of their youngest son, their life pressure has become more and more as his son gets older. As for himself, he is already sixty-two years old and his ability to make money is limited.
So for the sake of his younger son and Zhang Li's future life, he decided to take the house back, renovate it and rent it out as a mahjong room, charging several thousand yuan to support his younger son.
Yang Gufeng believes that his youngest son is only ten years old, and he still has a long way to go and a lot of money to spend.
And Yang Bo is already thirty-six years old. He has the ability to support himself, so Yang Bo should allocate some floors of the house registered in his name to his younger son.
Liu Yulan, mother and son, firmly disagreed with Yang Gufeng's decision. Later, Liu Yulan told reporters that she was dumbfounded when she knew Yang Gufeng and Zhang Li were together.
Because she had always treated Zhang Li as a daughter before this, she taught Zhang Li how to do insurance, but in the end Zhang Li robbed her husband.
Moreover, Zhang Li was only two years older than Yang Bo, which Liu Yulan and Yang Bo could not accept. Liu Yulan said that she had begged Yang Gufeng not to divorce her, but Yang Gufeng ignored her and insisted on divorcing her.
She also admitted this. She hoped to live a peaceful life with her son and his family. Even if Yang Gufeng brought Zhang Li and her son to live together later, she would tolerate it. But when Yang Gufeng wanted to fight for the real estate with Yang Bo for the sake of her younger son, she would have to fight for the real estate with Yang Bo. I can't bear it anymore.
Later, the reporter interviewed Zhang Li and asked her if Yang Gufeng's decision was her idea. Zhang Li directly denied that the matter had anything to do with her. At the same time, Zhang Li also denied that she and Liu Yulan were in a master-disciple relationship.
She told reporters that she was introduced to Yang Gufeng by a friend. At that time, she only knew that Yang Gufeng and Liu Yulan were not on good terms. Because Yang Gufeng was very good to her, they got together.
The reporter asked her that Yang Gufeng was twenty-four years older than her. Don't her parents object to them being together? Zhang Li said that her parents were opposed to the two of them being together at first.
But at that time, she didn't think much about it and wanted to be with Yang Gufeng, but her parents had no choice but to agree to their being together. She also knew that she was only two years older than Yang Bo, but she couldn't care less about the fate of the two, and she didn't care what others thought.
Thinking about it now, she felt that she was a little ignorant and reckless at the time, but she did not let Yang Gufeng go back to fight for the real estate with Yang Bo.
This matter had nothing to do with her, but she said that when the house was renovated, Yang Gufeng took the money back to build the house without consulting her, and she only found out about it after the fact.
Later, Yang Gufeng told reporters that Yang Bo had sued him eight times for this house. In the end, the court rejected Yang Bo's appeal, so he must fight Yang Bo to the end for the sake of his youngest son. After
learned the ins and outs of the matter, the mediator from the relevant local department persuaded Yang Gufeng that he had been living in the same building with Liu Yulan and his son in peace.
The subsequent conflict was caused by his own reneging on his word. Since the couple had already negotiated and decided to give the house to their eldest son when they divorced, he should not have gone back on his word.
After all, he is now over sixty years old. He can only go out to work for a few years, and the younger son is still so young, and the younger son simply does not have the ability to provide for him in old age.
His eldest son Yang Bo is still responsible for his pension issues, so the mediator suggested that Yang Gufeng should not be too persistent in fighting for the real estate with his eldest son for the sake of family ties. After all, family ties are more important than anything else. Later, Yang Gufeng said that he would appeal, and finally Mediation ended in failure.
Conclusion: The experiences of mother and son Yang Gufeng and Liu Yulan are very sad. As a father, no matter how old his son is, he should treat them equally.What's more, the couple had already negotiated the divorce, so how could he go back on his word?
When his hometown house was expropriated and he received so much expropriation money, why didn't he think about his eldest son? Why didn't he think about his eldest son when he got married and had a child?
He obviously did something wrong and betrayed his family, which eventually led to divorce. Why didn't he consider the feelings of his wife and children?
said that he didn't know that he would get married and have children later. This was just an excuse for him to cheat, because he had been secretly together with Zhang Li for many years behind his wife's back, which finally led to divorce.
If you don’t want to marry Zhang Li, then why get divorced? To be honest, it's not that Yang Gufeng didn't know that he would get married later. He made the decision later. He felt that his eldest son now owned a three-story building, while his younger son had nothing. He felt unbalanced.
He wanted to seize real estate for his younger son, so he would hurt his eldest son again and again regardless of family ties, making his eldest son and his ex-wife unhappy. He never thought about the day when he would grow old and need his eldest son to take care of him. one day.
Could it be that the younger son is his son, but the older son is not his son? Now that we have made a decision, we should fulfill our promise and let our ex-wife and son's family go.
After all, the life he is living now is not caused by his ex-wife and eldest son, so he should reflect on himself before making a decision. Otherwise, in the end, both sides will suffer, and he will be homeless.
article/Huang Xiaoguai
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