"Zeng Guang Xian Wen": "One day as a couple, a hundred lifetimes of marriage. A hundred generations of cultivation, we have traveled together on the same boat, and a thousand lifetimes of cultivation have come to sleep together. But in real life, some couples exist in name only,

"Zengguang Xianwen": "One day of husband and wife, a hundred lifetimes of marriage. A hundred generations of cultivation come to the same boat, and a thousand lifetimes of cultivation come to sleep together. But in real life, some couples exist in name only, with only two red books, and no couple should have

Let me give you a real case: Ajie, who has been married for 12 years, went to court with his wife. He said that he had been very frustrated during these 12 years and did not pay as much as he wanted. , he was greeted with punches and kicks. What was even more outrageous was that for six years after their marriage, his wife did not let him enter their room.

This hurt Ajie's heart to a certain extent, and Ajie decided to divorce his wife. The wife said that what Ajie said was not true at all. It was entirely her father-in-law who caused them to come to this point. They had two daughters and each of them raised one after the divorce. Ajie said that after he and his wife divorced, his wife took care of the children. After living in their house, his father couldn't stand it anymore and drove the woman away, so his ex-wife returned to her parents' home. This time, the ex-wife came back with the intention of remarrying, and if the remarriage failed, the woman would apply for a household registration for her daughter. In the name of applying for a household registration, the daughter could be registered in her own household registration, so that the two daughters would be raised by herself. The woman did not accept this statement at all. She said that the couple had a good relationship, but her former father-in-law was "patriotic." The idea of ​​​​"valuing girls" is very serious. The eldest child is a daughter, and they have been planning for a year to give birth to a boy for their family, but contrary to expectations, the second child is still a girl. When the father-in-law learned that it was still a girl, he said he was determined not to have it. The thinking of modern people is the same for boys and girls. And because I have experienced too many things when I was pregnant with my second child, I was even more reluctant to give up and insisted on raising the child. When my father-in-law learned about his daughter-in-law's attitude, he became furious and said this. You can raise the children by yourself, and don’t even think about taking any more money from me. In response to his ex-wife’s cry, Ajie responded that our divorce was not about his father, but about his wife’s attitude. I gave her every salary after we got married. , she gave me 200 yuan. It was difficult for her to get the money. Once when a colleague got married and asked her for it, he said directly that he didn't have it. He had no choice but to ask his father for it. It's very embarrassing and hurts your self-esteem.

Ajie said that what his wife said was all nonsense. She made up the fact that her father favored sons over daughters and caused their divorce. Ajie also told the mediator that you can ask the neighbors. How does our family treat her? We prepare three meals a day for her and make her what she likes to eat. The children they have are all brought up by the old couple.

Ajie’s father said that after we lived together, his daughter-in-law couldn’t do anything. They all found trouble and scolded themselves. We, the old couple, didn't want to argue with them. We moved out and gave the house to them. She even slandered me. I didn't expect this to happen to her at all. Daughter, I also asked my son to ask her to register the younger daughter’s household registration into our family. After all, she is our child.

Ajie made it clear during this mediation that he would never have any contact with his ex-wife again, and would rather stay single for the rest of his life than get back together with such a person.

The two still broke up on bad terms. What do you think about this? Welcome to discuss