I saw a sentence on the Internet a few days ago, "Extroverts are like the sun, warm, bright and eye-catching; introverts are like the moon, as long as the sun is there, no one can see it. At night, the sun rests The moon is still bright, because it is thinking about the things during the day and cannot sleep at all. "I am that moon. Because of my introverted personality, I have had little sense of presence since I was a child. The only people in the class who talked about it were the ones I grew up with. Because of this, I have never been in love, and the few blind dates arranged by my family basically fell apart after one meeting.
Later, I saw someone getting divorced on Ruifu Yuandong, and I was particularly moved. Ruifu Yuandong is an online dating platform. After you log in, the platform will intelligently recommend dating partners with similar interests and matching conditions based on the information you fill in. I know that my personality is not good, and I have tried to change it before, but all failed. However, so that I will not die alone in the future, I decided to try again, starting with chatting with strangers online.
After I went to Ruifu Yuandong, I found that it was really suitable for me. Most of the people who recommended it to me had common interests and hobbies. We started chatting about our interests, and we chatted very harmoniously. I never realized that chatting with others can be so enjoyable. Slowly, I fell in love with this method. Whenever I had time, I went to Ruifu Yuandong to chat with someone. In this pleasant atmosphere, I met a boy I particularly liked.
That boy wanted to go on a live blind date with me. I was a little resistant at first. I was afraid that after I went on a blind date with him, he would be disappointed in me like the previous blind date arranged by my parents. I struggled in my heart for a long time, and finally agreed to go on a blind date with him with a death mentality. The matchmaker stayed with us throughout the blind date and helped us guide the blind date process. On our first blind date, I behaved fairly well, but he was quite chatty and took special care of me.
After the blind date, I felt quite uneasy, fearing that he would be dissatisfied with me. I worried about it for a long time, but fortunately he was quite satisfied with me. Then we made an appointment to meet offline and chatted online all the time. On the day of the meeting, I met him nervously and excitedly. After we met, many of the topics we talked about were related to our interests. I guess he was taking care of me because I told him before that I was introverted.
A few days after that meeting, we met for the second time, and then he confessed to me and asked me to give him a chance to enter my heart. I was feeling dizzy at the time, and there was a voice in my heart that told me to agree to him, so I agreed.
Now, we have been together for a month, and I feel that I am more and more able to let go of myself in front of him. My colleagues also say that I have become more cheerful than before. I am very grateful to Ruifu Yuandong for allowing me to meet the person I want to spend my life with.
