The most basic unit of society is the family. As " Mencius " said: The foundation of the world is the country, and the foundation of the country is at home. As long as every family lives in harmony and happiness, the entire country and social atmosphere will take on a new look. It can even be said that all problems can be attributed to a family.
If any problem arises for every individual in the family, they have to find the answer from the family environment, family life atmosphere, and the mutual influence between family members. Because this answer is the most fundamental.
Therefore, no matter who you are, no matter what industry you are engaged in, or what position you are in, please be sure to run your own family well. Only when the family is happy and harmonious, everyone will feel infinite satisfaction. If you have the following "3 rings" in your home, don't ignore them. This is a blessing for your family.
The first sound was the sound of the kitchen. The ancients said: Food is the most important thing for people. That was said in the past when material living conditions were scarce. So, even in today's society, when everyone is hungry, eating three meals a day is still the top priority in life. There may be many people who are busy with work and have heavy tasks and do not have time to cook properly, so they choose to order takeout or eat out for a quick solution.
Actually, this is very unwise. No matter how busy you are, eating well at home is a great happiness. Because this is the most basic daily life. If you do everything quickly and conveniently, you will gradually lose the feeling of "home" over time.
The second ring is the nagging of parents. As parents get older, most of them have the habit of nagging. For young people, they will keep them in their hearts day and night with concerns about their future generations' careers, care in daily life, reminders of various suggestions, etc. This is compassion and care. But many of us misunderstand it, think of it as something completely unnecessary, and find it annoying to hear too much.
In fact, as long as you have a family, a career, and become a parent, you will deeply feel the father's love and mother's love, and the bond between the children, which is the parents' lifelong pursuit and an eternal concern. When we have grown up and our parents are getting older, you will find more and more that it is a great blessing for your parents to be alive, healthy and nagging.
The third ring is the sound of children reading. " Zhu Zi's Family Instructions " records: Although the descendants are stupid, they must read the classics. No matter whether your child is talented or not, you never know what kind of future you will have. In fact, these are not important. What is important is that children can be sensible, understanding, and spend their lives freely and happily.
And these are indispensable for the development of wisdom and the hard work of youth. The classics left to us by our ancestors are worth reading over and over again. The older the child is, the more obvious the effect will be on him. A family with the sound of reading aloud and classics recited over and over is the most blessed.
