Li Ming (pseudonym) and his wife Liu Xin (pseudonym) have been married for more than ten years and jointly run a training center and machinery parts factory, and their lives are smooth. However, Li Ming's changes in the past two years made Liu Xin unable to help but call out for divorce.
Liu Xin’s parents were sick, and the shop they had been managing was empty of staff, and the brothers had to go back to take care of them, so let Liu Xin helped take care of the shop, which prevented Liu Xin from going home. Li Ming kept calling Liu Xin to come back, using various inexplicable reasons. When Liu Xin finally came back freely, Li Ming began to violence against her and even took out a knife. Liu Xin was very frightened, but was unable to ask for help because of threats.
This is just the most recent one. Before this, Liu Xin has been domestically abused countless times, and sometimes the two daughters are still there. At the scene, pulling Li Ming and shouting "Help" "Don't beat Dad" could not stop him. Regarding this recent domestic violence, Li Ming gave the reason that Liu Xin cared too much about his parents and used the money he earned to pay for nutrition. He treated his family differently and made him very uncomfortable.
Obviously this is not Li Ming’s true voice. Under questioning, Li Ming expressed his discomfort. These years he and his wife Starting from scratch, I took my current business step by step and got my life on track. In order to allow the children to receive a better education, he and Liu Xin decided to take the children to the city. The results obtained in the county town were emptied by Liu Xin and her family. Now he has no control over the economy. .
This planted the seeds for the outbreak of the conflict between the two, and then Li Ming also found that Liu Xin arranged for her family to come. As a driver in his own company, he drove four thousand yuan for a month. When he learned that the market price was far from this price, he felt that his wife's favoritism with his family was too serious. But Liu Xin said that she had talked to Li Ming and was not partial because the workload she arranged was twice that of other companies.
The explanation failed to dispel the imbalance in Li Ming's heart. He repeatedly expressed that he wanted to control the economic power of the family, Liu Xin He was persuaded to refute the fact that both parties should make public accounts. Therefore, he re-started his own business and had the share he was in charge of, but Liu Xin was very dissatisfied, because she used the funds to re-enter the business, but it had to become Li Ming’s vent of work pressure, and he would abuse her at every turn. .
It is not difficult to see that it may be due to Li Ming’s character, or he knows that he is not as capable as his wife, he is with Liu Xin In getting along with each other, he has been strongly suppressed. He wanted to express it, but he couldn't express it. In the end, whether it was sadness, anger or other emotions, he was released through the act of domestic violence, causing irreversible harm. If both of them can understand each other more and communicate more, life can still be smooth sailing.
