Every relationship will have a process. Before the relationship is established, two people will experience an ambiguous period. If you have a good impression of each other, you will naturally need a process of understanding each other if you want to develop further. In this process, you can get to know each other well, and you can also feel some love atmosphere in advance.
After getting along for a period of time, we have some judgments in our minds as to whether two people are suitable.
In the world of love, we don't know when love enters our hearts. Similarly, after two people have an ambiguous relationship, it is difficult for us to really know that this ambiguous relationship starts with the right thing.
In many cases, when the opposite sex gets along, we don't feel that this relationship is abnormal, and we also feel that each other is a simple friendship. However, in the eyes of others, when they saw the interaction and the way of getting along between the two, they had already smelled the ambiguity.
When getting along with the opposite sex, we must be clear about one thing. If you don’t have a good opinion of the opposite sex, you must pay attention to the way you get along. If it is because of some of your behavior that the other party misunderstands your relationship, it will only cause you trouble. If you have a good impression of him, you can also use this opportunity to increase mutual understanding.
How to judge whether the relationship between the opposite sex is ambiguous? It's actually very simple. Just observe some details of the two people getting along.
If these "interactions" frequently occur between men and women, it indicates that the relationship between the two is very ambiguous.
01 I chat every day, and it has become a habit of the two.
Generally speaking, if it is an ordinary friend of the opposite sex, we usually contact him when there is something to do, or chat when we are bored. However, there is not much time for such chats, and it will not form a pattern.
When we feel good about a person,We think of each other every day. When we haven't contacted each other for a period of time, we can't help but miss each other, and finally take the initiative to contact the place. The more you care about one person, the less you will ignore the other person.
If two people have this kind of tacit understanding, they will chat every day, and they will also form a pattern and become a habit of each other, which is enough to show that in the hearts of two people, each other is of a different sex friend. Even if there is nothing special to say, they will share their daily lives. It is not necessary to say anything if they care about each other. Simply chatting is a very sweet thing.
feels like this, just like Shakespeare said: "Love is like a child. I want to have something right away."
02 Often gives each other some small gifts , Even if it was a drink, it revealed an ambiguous atmosphere.
Ordinary friends of the opposite sex can eat together and have fun together, but there must be contacts in terms of expenses. Or there is no cost, and each other chooses the AA system tacitly, and will not take advantage of each other.
In this way, when two people are together, they will be very calm. They will not take advantage of each other, and there is no need to worry that the other person will take advantage of themselves. It will be more natural to get along with each other in the future, and the friendship will be stronger. .
When the relationship between two people becomes ambiguous, these will also change. Especially when the two people are very clear in their hearts that the relationship between each other is not simple, they will accept this ambiguous relationship very tacitly. You can also take this opportunity to observe the opponent's attitude.
Generally speaking, when a man wants to pursue a woman and is worried about rejection, he first thinks about showing good to the woman. When together, men will actively pay for the bill, and will not accept women's AA system. If a woman understands the mind of a man,At the same time, when I have a good impression of men, I will naturally accept this way of getting along.
When men and women get along, if this behavior occurs frequently, they will give each other gifts and spend money generously to each other, it shows that the relationship between the two is not simple.
03 Frequent physical contact shows that the relationship between the two has long been ambiguous.
We often say that men and women are incompatible with each other. When dealing with the opposite sex, we will pay attention to the proportions and will not easily cross the safe boundary. Even when we are alone, we are very evasive, for fear that this kind of relationship will cause misunderstandings for each other and cause some trouble to each other.
If we have no good feelings for a person of the opposite sex, we will pay special attention to the way we get along. We will not give the other party wrong messages because of our words and deeds, which will cause some emotional misunderstandings. This is so in language, and even more so in behavior. When we get along, we will keep the boundaries of each other very well, and there will be no physical contact.
However, when some people get along with the opposite sex, not only will they be very intimate in speech, but they will also show some intimacy in their behavior. It's like, sometimes I pat the other person's shoulder, touch some of the other person's head, or even pinch the other person's face.
No matter what kind of intimacy behavior, once there is physical contact between men and women, it is enough to show that their relationship is not simple. If this happens frequently between them, it means that they have become ambiguous. Even if he doesn't want to admit it, such ambiguity has become a fact.
Fa Penchal once said: "A person who has love and comfort is not afraid of anything, anyone."
Ordinary friends of the opposite sex will definitely pay attention to getting along with each other. Of measure. But for those men and women who have long been ambiguous, since they have accepted this way of getting along, it means that in their hearts, they have more requirements for each other's relationship.There are other emotions in my heart, so naturally I don’t care about the eyes of others, but I enjoy such an ambiguous relationship.
If we have such a situation, we need to see our heart clearly and determine our inner emotions. If you really have a good impression, you can understand and feel it. If you don't have a good opinion, don't be ambiguous with the opposite sex easily, otherwise the trouble will find you in the end.
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