After falling in love with a 44-year-old married man, the woman said painfully and bluntly: He loves him, but he can’t satisfy me

Regarding extramarital affairs, there is a relatively absolute perception: men have never really loved their lovers, they just want to resolve their loneliness with each other.

To deal with this kind of relationship, when a woman faints, she must also restrain and keep calm. It is impossible to pin all the desire for happiness in the future on such emotions and such men.

The unreserved, whimsical ending, I am afraid it is infinite disappointment and pain!

In real life, there are not many women who have this kind of consciousness.

Their final helpless emotion was: "I never knew that among those who you want to fail, there will be me!"

But the facts are in front of us, and there is no way to escape.

How does it feel like this? Perhaps the following person knows best.

After falling in love with a 44-year-old man, this woman is now very painful.

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My last name is Sun, I am 34 years old. I had a failed marriage more than three years ago. When I divorced my ex-husband, the child was sentenced to each other.

About a year ago, I got together with my current boyfriend. I love him very much and don't care if he has a family.

In my opinion, anyway, if a man is willing to give you a name, he may eventually disperse.

As long as I can find feelings in this man and find everything I care about, things like form are not too important to me.

And to be honest, the reason why I would let go of my worries and be a lover to a married man was that this man who was 10 years older than me was relatively ideal in terms of material conditions, and he was generous in his actions, and he was very generous and caring for me.

At the beginning, I was quite safe and recognized my position, but the longer I stayed with him, the greed and desire in my heart increased day by day.

It can be said that I have fallen in love with him unreservedly, but he is too sensible if he wants more full love. I still maintain the same attitude that I used to treat me, and the rhythm of getting along with me has no ups and downs and changes.

does not say that it treats me worse than before, but it hasn't become better, which makes me very disturbed and worried.

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Seriously, if he had a showdown with me at the beginning, he just wanted to be a lover, not to talk about love, not to talk about long-term.

Maybe I will not be greedy, nor will I have unrealistic expectations. But he had to pretend to be affectionate, and he would talk to me with special affection from time to time.

I remember when we celebrated Valentine's Day in our first year together, we went to a place far away from his home for a date.

After eating out from the restaurant in the evening, he took advantage of no one and ran to the green belt and picked three roses for me.

At that time, we found a feeling of being a thief, but the excitement and excitement in our heart was beyond comparison with the money he bought me a bunch of roses.

There is a kind of guilty conscience of doing bad things, but there is also a kind of irritation produced by disregarding the world and challenging the rules...

In short, it is connected with our personal emotions. There is no feeling, and it is difficult for me to accurately describe it. How I feel inside.

At that time he said to me: "I stole the rose, but it is true that I love you. There are many dazzling women in this world, but you are the only one who flashes to me."

Was moved by his sweet words; how about acting like this as true love?

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But the temptation made me move my true feelings, but he just wanted to keep such a rhythm and form of getting along.

I gradually gave my true feelings and began to want to live a long-term husband and wife life with him, and even imagined that he could divorce and marry me, but he always refused. (Although I won’t say it explicitly, it’s always . As far as I am concerned, he never answers me directly, let alone promises me.)

What makes me more and more dissatisfied is that,In the past, he was at least generous to me in terms of money and material,

would not be too stingy and careless. But after being together for a long time, he began to talk about the feelings between us, saying at every turn: "Love is mixed with matter to become vulgar." Such as perfunctory and prevarication.

He didn't want to give it to me for marriage, so I just wanted to retreat and want a stable material life, but he was unwilling to give all of himself, and the reserved part was quite large.

I didn't think about breaking up, but every time at this time, he vowed to say to me: "I can abandon the whole world, but I can't abandon you!"

Oh! Now I am in a dilemma. I can't fully own him, but I don't have the courage and determination to leave him. What do you think I should do next?

Conclusion:

As a woman, you have to understand: Even hot water will eventually cool down.

If a man doesn't even love his partner, but he doesn't want to divorce, then his attitude towards extramarital affairs is absolutely impossible to take seriously. The love words spoken by

are just a routine, just listen to it as you like; the things done for the lover, the money and material spent, are just an investment and exchange. It has nothing to do with sincerity. It is a practice similar to buying and selling and treating the other party as a commodity.

In this world, people who are too emotional can easily have a bad life. Because when you mistakenly entrust your deep affection and trust to unworthy feelings and the opposite sex, in the end, everything that is true can be tortured in minutes and you will be incomplete and indestructible!

What is love? It is the hand of a child, the promise of a lifetime; it is magnanimous to be able to walk in the sun holding hands; it is the courage to support each other for the rest of your life, even if you know that there are countless difficulties and ups and downs in front of you, as long as you are accompanied by each other, you are not afraid Everything, go forward courageously.

These are only possible for men who are willing to marry women. Wanting to cultivate a good cause and effect in an extramarital affair is tantamount to idiotic dreams!

I think this should also make this lady know what to do, right?

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