In life, women often complain that everything is fine before marriage. After marriage, a man seems to be a different person. Sometimes, it is obvious that a woman puts a strict test on a man before marriage, but it still appears after marriage. Looking at the phenomenon of misunderstanding, can this situation be unavoidable? , Of course it is possible, as long as we carefully check the following aspects before marriage, we can definitely eliminate the "inferior man" from our love
1. Is there any seriousness? Family genetic diseases
There is an article titled "If There Is Tomorrow": Mother has hereditary heart disease. In their family, there are people in every generation who sleep or walk without warning Suddenly died. My mother did not tell my father about this, because I was afraid that he was worried, my father tried his best to cooperate with his mother, and always pretended not to know, but his heart was always nervous. He knew it himself.
Despite living in this way for a few years, the disaster still happened. When my father was working overtime, the person in the communication room suddenly called him to answer the phone and said it was from his family. His face was pale, and he walked a few steps forward and fell to the ground,
When his mother arrived, his father's body was already cold, and his face was distorted by fear and despair. With his eyes open unwillingly, the doctor told his mother that the deceased had died of heart failure.
Just like the mother in the story, the family’s illness is intermittent, some will not occur for many years, and some are frequent.But because there is no way to predict it, I can only worry all day long. If a woman finds such a man as a husband, I am afraid that she can only endure torture all day long. Moreover, family diseases will be inherited, and tragedies are likely to repeat themselves in the children.
2 Is there a tendency to violence?
The TV series " Don't Talk to Strangers" fully demonstrates how a man with serious violent tendencies tortured his wife and the people around him: An Jiahe who is a thoracic surgeon in Xiamen because of violence Tendency, once beaten his ex-wife to a broken leg bone, and the ex-wife was forced to commit suicide because of the brutal beating. He married Mei Xiangnan again. The tragedy happened again. He repeatedly beat Mei Xiangnan and hurt her again and again, but he refused. Let her go, the weak Mei Shonan doesn’t want to break the marriage, she always endures it, but her patience will only make her more miserable... He has a gentle appearance and appears elegant in front of outsiders, but when he returns home, he will punch and kick his wife and stage domestic violence sitcoms.
In terms of marriage, older leftover women often get married without getting along with their boyfriend for a long time because of their age. However, entering marriage with such an eagerness, although it solves lifelong major events, it may also bury hidden dangers for the rest of life. A man is a very complicated "commodity". If it is not carefully considered and tested, the remaining women are very May be deceived by the superficial good "commodity".
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