fo tells us that there are four kinds of predestined relationships between parents and children. The first one is to repay the kindness. In the past life, you get along well with each other. You have kindness to him. He comes to your house to reincarnate and repay the kindness. This child is the saying. Dutiful sons and virtuous grandchildren. The second is complaining. He has had revenge in his past life, and he will avenge him in this life. When he grows up, he must have broken the law and committed a crime, causing your family to ruin.
Now when we look at this society, many people say that their children are not filial, that they are not obedient, and that they are not easy to teach. To be honest, there is cause and effect here, not for no reason, not accidental. If you learn fo, you will think: My son is here to repay the favor, or to complain? We treat others in our life, do we give more favors? I still have a lot of resentment with others, I will know if I think about it. If you have a kind heart and do good deeds throughout your life, and consider others everywhere, your children will be good. Why? He did not complain. If you see that people are dissatisfied, and always criticize, teach, insult, and humiliate people, you will have a bad bond with people, and they will be unfilial when they come to your house to be your son and daughter. That’s it. Reason, this is repaying gratitude and complaining. There are also two kinds of fate, debt collection and debt repayment. If you owe to others, they will collect debts. Collect debts, if you owe less, he will leave after collecting debts. For example, when the child was raised to three or five years old, he also spent a lot of money and spent a lot of effort to take care of him. He left and died. The less you owe, the less he asks. If you owe him too much, you will train her to graduate from university and get a bachelor's degree, so that she can just go to work in the society, and he will leave without a job. All the money you spent on her, the hard work you spent on her, all went to waste. The more you owe, the more debt he collects.
The other one comes to pay off the debt, and the one who pays the debt depends on how much he owes you. He owes a lot. He has made a lot of money and has taken care of his parents materially, but he has no filial piety and no respect for his parents. If he owes a small amount, he will be very mean to his parents' material life. He leads a good life on his own, and his parents can only have enough food and clothes, and a small house to shelter them from wind and rain is enough. He lives in a high-rise building, his parents live in a small house, and he can take care of his life. It's just a normal life. He owes less, so he shouldn't pay back that much. What fo said is very reasonable, and the more you think about it, the more reasonable it will be."Repaying grievances and complaining about debt collection and repayment", if you understand and learn fo know, you can bear it.
to repay the favor, very good, filial son and grandson, I hope he can learn fo, and everyone will become fo together in the future. If you come to complain, you can resolve it, you will no longer resent, even if your family is ruined, you will nod your head, you should. In the past, I treated him like this, and today he hugs him back like this, hugs for a hug, and it ends here, and there will be no resentment in the next life. As for those who come to collect debts, don't be overly sad when he leaves. Those who come to pay off the debts, even if they pay (huan) very little, know that he didn't owe me much in the past, so they don't need to ask too much. Live peacefully, recite fo to the Pure Land of Survival, and go to the Paradise of Bliss to do fo. What's wrong?
Material life is too rich, you don’t want to leave this world, life is very hard, and your children don’t respect themselves, so they just chant fo, why? He will not interfere with you. So you figured it out, it's all good to increase the bounds, if you can't figure it out, your resentment naturally arises, and you are unfair and resentful. The injustice and resentment are that you continue to create karma, which is wrong. When we encounter bad conditions, we must use skillful convenience to resolve it, even if others are sorry for us, don't take it to heart, if nothing happens. Fo Bodhisattva taught us that we should follow the environment, accept it, and don’t care about it. If we don’t feel resentful and unfair, the account will be settled. Once it is over, the good destiny will come, turning the evil destiny into the good destiny. To be wise, this is to be truly wise.
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