If your boss slaps you in the face, do you immediately fight back or pack your things and copy the boss? Many people think that there is a place for the Lord to stay here, so I'll talk about it before I feel good, but they forget the old saying: Keep the green hills, and you are not afraid of not having firewood. What I want to say is that since I have been hitting, what if I hit another side, stretch out my right cheek, and forbearance. The workplace is like a battlefield, and the battlefield is dangerous, and sometimes it takes a while to be patient before you can wait for it.
"Forbearance" is a major invention of Chinese people's life. It spread to Japan and became "Ninjutsu." In Confucian philosophy , it is a strategy of self-restraint and tactful retreat adopted in order to achieve some kind of lofty revenge. In the Taoist doctrine, "forbearance" is a flexible weapon, which can be used properly to restrain all hard and strong forces. As the saying goes: "The word forbearance is a knife on the wall", which vividly illustrates the offensive function of "forbearance" as a life strategy; it is by no means to accept it, but to keep a low profile and wait for the time to move. As an ancient civilization with a history of thousands of years, China has created countless masters of Ninxology since ancient times and today. Warring States In the late period of the Warring States, after Qin annihilated the State of Wei, after a few years of calm days, King of Qin suddenly heard that there was a noble named Zhang Er and another named Chen Yu conspired to recover. Kingdom, King Qin feared the resurrection of Wei’s survivors, so he posted notices everywhere offering a large amount of money to capture the two people. Chen Yu’s reward was 500 taels and Zhang Er’s reward was 1,000 taels. When Zhang Er and Chen Yufeng heard about this, they thought that the thirty-six plan would be the best, so they changed their names and changed their surnames, and absconded to Chen Guo to be the guards. The two lived a peaceful life in this way. One day, a small local official found the ballast for no reason, saying that Chen Yu was an eyesore, so he flogged Chen Yu easily. As a nobleman, Chen Yu could not bear this kind of insult, so he stood up sharply to fight back. When it was said that it was too late, Zhang Er tripped Chen Yu with a sprint, and cast a wink to make Chen Yu endure the breath. Chen Yu had no choice but to admit that he was unlucky and let the evil official suffocate his temper without saying a word.After the evil official left, Zhang Er helped Chen Yu, who was beaten to death, and carried him to the mulberry forest. You can’t stand the small prestige, what are we talking about in the future? The so-called “small intolerance leads to chaos, do you understand? Later, after the outbreak of peasant uprising in the end of Qin, Zhang Er and Chen Yu were separated
In the face of contempt and insult, individuals must have a broad mind and measure. Tang Dynasty Wu Zetian _span 10span _span 10span, the prime minister of Louspan 11spanspan. can be counted as a ninjutsu horn. His younger brother was ordered to serve as the governor of Daizhou. When he took office, Lou Shide warned him: "We are both politically upright, and it is easy to be hated by others. You must be careful. Be cautious, and be patient everywhere. "His brother said: "Well! If someone spit on my face, I will not care about it, just wipe it off silently. It's okay to do this." Lou Shide said: "That's not enough. When someone spat on your face, it must be because he hates you. If you wipe it off in person, it will cause him even greater hatred, thinking that you deliberately opposed him. It is best to smile and not move, let the saliva automatically get rid of, so that he will not hate it." Lou Shide's patience can be said to be the pinnacle. The spirit of perseverance and patience is a manifestation of a person's personality and determination, and it is the use of a person's strategy for others in the world.
In the officialdom, everything goes well. Learning to be patient and retreating gently can get infinite benefits. As the saying goes: to endure the breath of time, so as not to worry about a hundred days. The Bible has also advised people that if someone slaps you on the left cheek, stretch out your right cheek and let him hit. It can be seen that the Eastern and Western cultures are still connected at this point.
Li Yuanhong When he was in Hubei at the end of the Qing Dynasty, he was always under Zhang Biao. Zhang Biao was the confidant of Zhang Zhidong and married Zhang Zhidong’s beloved maid.It is called "Aunt Ya". But Zhang Biao was narrow-minded, jealous and capable, and he was very disgusted with Li Yuanhong. In addition, the newspapers at the time also praised Li Yuanhong and belittled Zhang Biao. Zhang Biao was dissatisfied and often slandered Li Yuanhong in front of Zhang Zhidong. At the same time, they also humiliated and slandered Li Yuanhong in every way at the higher positions, trying to make Li Yuanhong unable to bear the humiliation and leave the army. Zhang Biao's technique was very bad. He once ordered Li Yuanhong to kneel in the army and threw Li's hat on the ground in front of the soldiers. Li Yuanhong endured all kinds of insults without changing his expression and no anger on his face. Zhang Biao was helpless to him. However, Li Yuanhong is not willing to be a man. He seems to be loyal and powerful. He knows that Zhang Biao is bullying himself, but he does not fight with him. Zhang Biao was appointed as the town commander, but Li Yuanhong was required to assist Zhang Biao in military establishment and deployment training. Zhang Biao did not understand military affairs, and Li Yuanhong worked hard to train for it. On the day when he became an army, Zhang Zhidong went to check and saw that he was quite organized, he praised Li Yuanhong in person, but Li Yuanhong thanked him and said: "Everything is the deployment of Zhang control, and the humble position can only be followed by the whip. What merit?" Zhang After listening to Li Yuanhong's words, Biao was very grateful, and the relationship between the two gradually became harmonious. In September 1907, Zhang Zhidong served as the Minister of Military and Aircraft, and the general of the three provinces Zhao Erxun served as the governor of Huguang. Zhao Er looked down on Zhang Biao and wanted to replace him with Li Yuanhong, but Li Yuanhong was not allowed to resign. At the same time, Li met Zhang Biao in person and informed him of the matter, suggesting that he call Zhang Zhidong and let Zhang Zhidong find something for him. When Zhang Biao heard this, he was shocked and immediately let his wife go to Beijing to exercise, and only then did he save his position. Zhang Biao was very grateful to Li Yuanhong, and Zhang Zhidong also believed that Li Yuanhong was quite faithful. From then on, he looked at him differently. In this way, Li Yuanhong climbed the big tree of Zhang Zhidong. In fact, Li Yuanhong's official addiction is no less than Zhang Biao's, but he considered it farther. Although Zhang Zhidong left Hubei, he served as Minister of Military Aircraft in Beijing. As the saying goes, there are people in the DPRK who are good officials. If they take this opportunity to climb Zhang Zhidong, they will naturally have a great influence on their official career. It can be seen that Li Yuanhong actually hides extremely deep power tricks under his kind appearance. Li Yuanhong's "forbearance" ability affected his entire destiny. After the Wuchang Uprising broke out in October 1911, the rebel forces forced him to become a "capital governor". He was extremely reluctant. In the end, he "tolerated" and agreed with the revolution. When he was president, the prime minister was in power. He was only a puppet president, a machine to stamp a seal, and a small clerk of state affairs looked down on him. In most cases, he "tolerated" him."Patience" itself is painful, especially when you are a president, "respectful but not important, high and unreasonable, and people are not trivial." This is for a person with a strong desire for power. unbearable. Therefore, he also fought several times, but at this time Li Yuanhong had no military strength to back up. In the face of those arrogant soldiers, every time he fought, he ended up resigning himself. Resignation is even more uncomfortable for Li Yuanhong, who is accustomed to being an official and has an official addiction. "The power of the two evils is the lesser", so he puts "forbearance" as the most important thing, and re-emerged as an official. So he can serve twice as Vice President and two as President.
gave so many examples to summarize the word "forbearance". Yes, no matter where you stand in the workplace, there are societies in human society. From ancient times to the present, there are people who do great things that are not forbearable. Forbearance is not cowardice or dullness, it is a stepping stone for you to stand on a high level. , Without it you are just a hedgehog that no one dares to use. Above my point of view, if you have a different point of view, please leave a message in the comment area to express your opinion.
