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Zeng Shiqiang said: Remember one thing, love can have no conditions, but marriage must have conditions. We don’t have the conditions to get married now, so we are confused.
When talking about love, we can ignore the conditions, because no one knows who is the one who walks to the end together. But when we talk about marriage, we cannot ignore the conditions. The more confused you are, the more your marriage will be.
Zhong Xin suffered the loss of unconditional marriage, so she is now being controlled by her in-laws. Zhong Xin and her husband worked hard to get a house, but their mother-in-law was confident that she asked her filial eldest son to transfer the property to marry her younger son. Zhong Xin couldn't bear it anymore and could only show off: I changed the house and changed my surname.
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When Zhong Xin talked about love with her husband, she never considered her husband's family background, because she believed that as long as she was a good person, material things could be achieved through hard work. Zhong Xin said this and did the same. When talking about marriage, her parents asked for a bride price of 100,000 yuan. After her mother-in-law's begging, Zhong Xin was reduced to 50,000 yuan.
Plus, my husband begged for his parents and cried poorly. Zhong Xin was kind and innocent. Without thinking too much, she proposed to rent a house and get married and save money before buying a house. The parents were furious about their daughter's back-on complaints and almost broke off their relationship with Zhong Xin.
Finally, Zhong Xin did not marry her husband's house, but moved into her in-laws' house and lived with her in-laws and brother-in-law. It’s just that after living for only two years, Zhong Xin couldn’t wait to move out to rent a house. Because she really couldn't stand the negligence of her parents-in-law in life.
Because I wanted to buy a house first and then have a child, Zhong Xin had not been pregnant for the past three years. It was not until the couple saved money to save the down payment and successfully bought the house that Zhong Xin put the child on the agenda.
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But she finally got pregnant, so her mother-in-law could kidnap her family. Since the news of my brother-in-law's girlfriend, the other party's mother-in-law, who has never been married and has never been to the house, comes to show kindness every now and then, either to take care of Zhong Xin for three meals a day or to stay at home to do housework.
After half a month of this, my mother-in-law couldn't help but make her own request. Now her husband is married and married, and she will soon have her own children. But my brother-in-law is still not married yet. Now a girl finally fell in love with him and is pregnant with her child. My mother-in-law hopes that her husband can transfer the house they just bought to his younger brother, saying that when his younger brother gets married successfully, he will transfer the house back, so that nothing will be delayed.
This request from my mother-in-law not only surprised her husband, but also Zhong Xin was confused. She asked her mother-in-law, transfer the house to her brother-in-law, where will we live? My mother-in-law said a little embarrassedly, "You can move back to live with us first, and you can move back when your brother-in-law successfully gets the marriage."
Zhong Xin and her husband looked at each other. Can you still get the house you gave out? Zhong Xin disagreed and felt that the risk was too great. It was not that she did not believe in her in-laws' family, but that she did not believe in human nature and human hearts.
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My husband lowered his head silently, not saying agree or rejecting. Zhong Xin thought she had refused, and the matter of transferring the house to her brother-in-law would be left alone, and her mother-in-law would find another way.
But who knows that after just one day, I couldn't resist my mother-in-law's begging. My filial husband decided to transfer the house to his younger brother, saying that he and his younger brother had agreed that the house would be returned to them intact when they got the marriage certificate.
, please let my husband explain, and how my brother-in-law guarantees it, Zhong Xin just refuses to accept it. Now they promise to do a good job, but who knows if they will take it for themselves after they move in for a while? What's more, her future sister-in-law is not a soft persimmon. Will she be willing to be fooled by her in-laws?
My husband has been trying to persuade her, saying that his parents had no choice but to come up with such an idea if they had a solution.Zhong Xin was speechless, but she still refused to compromise. She directly confronted her husband. You want to transfer the house to your younger brother. I will change my husband's surname and you will live with your parents and brother's family.
Zhong Xin has a tough attitude. If you want to transfer a house, you must first divorce, and then divide the property and then take over the marriage of your brother-in-law. Seeing this, my husband had to helplessly reject her mother-in-law and brother-in-law.
, and my mother-in-law was very unwilling to accept it, and criticized Zhong Xin as an outsider, so she provoked their brotherly relationship and was not qualified to point fingers at her son's house. Zhong Xin smiled without saying a word. As long as the house is still in her name, she doesn't care about her in-laws' attitude.
Today's topic:
Do you support Zhong Xin's husband transferring the house to his brother for marriage?
