The 8-year-old husband and young wife are not "happy", their wife tells herself that life needs care

Do you know what a woman desires most in marriage? It's love, it's caring. If a man doesn't care and love his wife, the woman will have the idea of ​​going out to find love, so she will cheat. However, most women will not divorce, but they will not make a clean break with their lovers. What are their inner thoughts? Now let's listen to a middle-aged woman's experience of an extramarital affair. My surname is Wu, I am 43 years old, my husband is nine years older than me, we belong to the old husband and the young wife. Twenty years of married life.

Although it can't be said to be happy, it is still safe. When the child was young, it was fine, we would still have some married life, and occasionally he would give me some small surprises. After the child went to high school, he may have become more and more indifferent to me because he is older, or he is no longer interested in married life. After returning home in the evening, we were like strangers living together, and we usually had nothing to communicate except for the problems of children and money. I got up early and went to work after dinner, and I did housework after dinner.

He fell down on the sofa watching TV, and at night, no one paid attention to anyone and played with his back to his mobile phone. Since the child went to college and was not at 's home , he simply separated from me and moved to the child's room by himself. Except for eating and going to the bathroom , he basically did not go out. In his opinion, performs its own duties and means that he is responsible for making money and I am responsible for taking care of the family. I also try to be close to my child when he is not at home, because the family is too depressing. At first, he would be perfunctory, but later he didn't even respond. Originally, there was a generation gap because of the age difference.

Now there is a lack of communication and the relationship between us is getting more and more tense. In this way, I chose to cheat. That man was very gentle and humorous, and everything about him deeply attracted me.He is also 43 years old, and there are many topics that cannot be talked about among his peers. The most important thing is that he is willing to listen, listen to me talk about the trivial matters of life, and say that is short for parents. He usually cares about me very much. Every time it rains, he will ask me to bring an umbrella. When I cook and cut vegetables, he will tell me to pay attention not to cut it. No matter what problems at home, as long as I say.

He will definitely help me solve it as soon as possible. If you want to know if a man loves you or not, just look at the details. His tenderness and thoughtfulness made me "can't stop" because I haven't experienced the feeling of being cared for in a long time. He always told me that he wanted me to get a divorce, we were together in good faith, and then he would marry me, he was widowed, his wife passed away very early, and he was always alone. In fact, I was also heartbroken, but after that, I started to hesitate about and . After all, I'm in my forties. just like.

I am the same as my husband, because our relationship was very hot in the beginning, but is it not like this now? And I am also used to the current life, and I am used to having children by my side, including my husband. This person, so I don't dare to start a new life. I also thought about getting a divorce, but every time I persuade myself, it's been more than half my life. Although he doesn't care about me, I still don't want to talk about divorce first. So I can only continue to play good wife and mother at home, while having a tryst with my lover outside. Actually, I am quite complicated.

If he can give me more love, then I will not cheat. Conclusion: Most of the women who choose to cheat in marriage will have the idea of ​​Ms. Wu. While coveting the tenderness and romance of an outsider, they dare not divorce their husband, and then they will find themselves in a dilemma.Indecision can make your marriage more and more strained. No matter how gentle and considerate the person outside you is, after a long time together, the relationship will gradually become dull. Don't destroy your original life because of greed for temporary novelty.