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"Daughter-in-law, how did you change the lock at home? I can't enter the house", daughter-in-law: Day and night protection House thieves are hard to guard . What is going on here? Why is it like this? We together look.
Ms. Chen, 45 years old:
My mother-in-law moved to my house two years ago. I didn't want my mother-in-law to come to the house to provide for the elderly. But my husband said that it is not easy for my mother to be in her hometown alone. Why is it not easy for her, we give her 2,000 yuan a month, and she has her own pension... Her monthly living expenses alone are more than that of our family. In the end, I couldn't talk about my husband, so I had to agree to let my mother-in-law move here. But I said yes in advance. My mother-in-law has two sons who live with us for a year, so we have to live with my uncle last year. We take turns to provide for her elderly care. When my husband saw that I had given in, he also agreed that my mother could live here for a year, and then let my brother live there for another year. Both sides take turns to live... just like that, my mother-in-law came to live with me. It was fine when I first came to live, but within a few days there were many problems.
When our mother-in-law lived alone in her hometown, we paid 2,000 yuan a month for living expenses. After coming here now, I plan not to give her the 2,000 yuan, but 1,000 yuan. Eat ours here, drink ours, and give 1,000 pocket money, is that enough? 1,000 yuan is more than my own pocket money for a month. Mother-in-law will never complain. Unexpectedly, her mother-in-law disliked that 1,000 yuan was too little and not enough for him to spend. In the past, she used her own at home, all of which were given 2000 yuan. Now when I come here, I use mine, drink mine, everything is mine, can't you give it 1000? Is our money so easy to do? It is not easy for us to make money. In the past, it was not easy to watch the mother-in-law's life. She was alone in her hometown, so I gave a little more. Now that I am here, can't I save a little?
No matter what I say, my mother-in-law just refuses. Anyway, I have to give 2,000 yuan a month. In the end I gave it because I didn't want to fight with her.My husband said me, why should I give 2000? Then I said that I had already told my mother-in-law that she refused to be less... My husband’s company layoffs and his wages have also dropped a lot... Now life is getting more and more difficult, and I also understand my husband’s difficulties. But is there any way? The mother-in-law is not considerate of us. This is not the biggest problem. The biggest problem is that since the mother-in-law came to the house, there are often no things in the house. Even if we lose things often, the mother-in-law also said that we forgot when we were old and didn't know where to put it. She still doesn't admit that she took it all the time. Although I am in my forties. But it's not enough to forget so many things. In fact, I don't have evidence, so it's hard to tell, I just doubt it.
If she didn't take it, who would take it? Even if my son took my money, he would not dare to take hundreds, hundreds, or thousands of dollars like this. And when I was very young, I just took a little money, just a few dollars. I believe that many children used their parents' money to buy snacks when they were young. But children will never take that much. It was not taken by my son. I must know my own money. I will definitely not take it, and neither will my husband. He took the initiative to hand over my husband’s money to me for safekeeping, and I would give it to him if he needed it. And I have never refused my husband to ask me the reason for asking for money, so my husband is not short of money, nor will he ask me for money casually, he knows how important this money is to family life. So it’s not me, it’s not the husband or the son. If we exclude the three of us, who else? The fourth person is my mother-in-law.
There are only 4 people in this family. Excluding three, she definitely took the remaining one, but I couldn't bear to make this matter so stiff to make everyone bad. That's why I didn't force my mother-in-law to admit it. She usually takes some money and forgets it, even my skin care products. Although my skin care products are not very expensive, they cost hundreds of dollars. What does she do with my skin care products? I once went to her room to see it secretly, and there is no skin care product, and I don't know where she took my skin care product. I know that I shouldn't just go through her old man's things casually, but there are so many things missing in the house, I can always find it, right? There are more and more things that are not necessarily. In the beginning, I just lost money, and then even my skin care products disappeared. Later, the mobile phones of the two husbands disappeared.
is the most surprising thing. The phone is gone, but the phone card is there. Obviously that person knew that the phone card could not be taken, but just took the phone away. That mobile phone is my husband’s year-end award... it’s the iPhone 12... The person who didn’t get a mobile phone card meant that he was his own person. He didn’t want to do something so terribly. He also knew the importance of a mobile phone card. This person is definitely not me. Why should I take my husband's cell phone? If I want that cell phone, I can just tell him directly. It won't be my son. He wouldn't dare to do so. Not even my husband. Why does my husband's own cell phone do this? In the end, my husband used the previous mobile phone card... In fact, we all know it well, we all know that my mother-in-law did it, but I don’t know why she did it. We don't care about her, but we don't want to make things so stiff.
Unexpectedly, my mother-in-law would have to make an inch. In the past it was only a few hundred, a few hundred such to take. Later, I actually took 5000 yuan once. No matter where I put the money, she will find it. The most important thing is that we all go to work, and my mother-in-law is the only one in the house. She is too idle. This house is so big that she can always find it. So many times I don’t want to take the cash home anymore. A few times I paid my wages in cash, and there are also utility bills for grocery shopping at home, most of which are in cash. So there is some cash in the house. This cash is just right for her mother-in-law, so she can take it... She has been living at home for a year and has lost a lot of good things and a lot of money. I thought she would move to my uncle's place after living for a year, but she didn't expect that she would not leave. She said she was used to living here. My husband can't help it, this is his mother... My husband can't help it, what can I do? It's just that I haven't forced me to drive her out.
Later, my mother-in-law forced to stay at home for another year. Sure enough, shameless people are invincible in the world. My mother-in-law is such a person, no matter what we say to her, how we hint to her, she just refuses to leave. Later I found out that my mother-in-law gave all those things to my uncle's family. Later I told my mother-in-law about the matter, and I told her that I knew she took the things, but my mother-in-law still refused to admit it. Then I said you gave those things to my uncle's family. Do you think I don't know? Do you want me to show you the evidence? When my mother-in-law heard me say this, he also admitted.I handed my skin care products to my uncle and wife, and gave my mobile phone to my uncle’s son, and the money was given to my uncle for the house... The most damn thing is that not only did we use our money to provide the house for my uncle, but also her own money. Also hand it over. I just wanted to ask her if my husband is your son, why do you treat him like this? My question left my mother-in-law speechless. My mother-in-law did not answer me either, that is, she wanted to help the younger son...
My husband came back at noon, and then I told my husband about this. The husband didn't believe it at first. He thought it was just his mother who was playful and spent the money. He didn't expect to give the money to the younger son. Even the mobile phone, skin care products...all to my uncle's family... the husband was very angry when he heard these. Then I told my husband that besides giving these things to my uncle, the mother-in-law also gave the 2,000 yuan we gave her every month, as well as her own savings and retirement funds, to the uncle's house... after listening to these husbands I can't control my anger anymore. He asked his mother to make it clear, and the answer his mother-in-law gave him was that I said that... I don't know what to do with my husband these days. I didn't expect his mother would treat him like this. If it is patriarchal, then forget it, but he is also the mother's son. Now she is supporting her in old age, and she still lives in our house... The husband said that he could not help it. He doesn't know what to do, so I will take care of this matter.
Then I said to my mother-in-law, you have lived in our house for two years, and it's time to go to my uncle's house. And if you leave everything to him, then you should take care of him. Your future pension will have nothing to do with us, but we will still give you one or two thousand yuan a month. My mother-in-law told me angrily, this is my son's house, why should I leave? Even if I want to leave, you have to leave... Then my husband looked at me. Then I said, mother-in-law, stop making trouble. I don't want to see you again tonight. If you are still here, don't blame me for being polite. After saying this, my husband and I went to work. When I went to work, I told my friends who had unlocked that they would go to my house and change the lock on my door... At three or four o’clock in the afternoon, my mother-in-law called me and told me why her key couldn’t open the door and she couldn’t get in. go with. Then I said that there is no longer your home, it is hard to guard against house thieves day and night. We are so good to you, you only have the uncle in your heart, then you go to the uncle's house... Finally the mother-in-law went to the uncle's house helplessly...
Conclusion:
can't think of this world There is such a eccentric mother.Isn't the eldest son his own son? The eldest son is so good to you, why do you treat the eldest son like this? If you say that your eldest son is not filial to you, then say otherwise, but he is not so filial to you, but you are still so partial. So your ending like this is not worthy of sympathy at all, it's all on your own account. I don't know how you feel about this ending? I hope that all parents will not be like this mother and be only good to the youngest son. Don't forget that the eldest son is also your son. Treat your own children with a bowl of water. Also, whether you are an older child or a young child, they are all your own children. As long as they are filial to you, you should treat them well. They are all your own children and they will support you in the care of you. Why do you need to favor one another? You will pay for your actions in the future. When you regret it, everything is too late. So we must take a warning and never learn from this mother. You must take it as a warning, or you will definitely regret it later. The above content is from real netizens' contributions. You are welcome to leave a message in the comment area to help this netizen. If you or your friends are also emotionally confused, you can follow and send a private message to @小编. Maybe the answer is not the most professional, but it must be the most attentive. Perhaps the next article will be published just for you. I'm the sea talking about emotions, watching other people's stories, and reflecting on my own life. Don't go the way of others.
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