Can a man who has sex outside of marriage be able to return to his family? Listen to the words of 3 women

The object of his cheating was the front desk of their company. The two went to the bar for a few drinks and hooked up. After I found out, I found the girl at the front desk to make a fuss. She was so scared that she resigned from the company at the time, and soon broke contact with my husband and left.

After the girl at the front desk left, my husband came back crying and apologized to me and asked me to forgive him. This time, I thought that the child was still young and I still loved him, so I chose to forgive him.

However, since then, I have no sense of trust in him. As long as he comes back a little later, I will think about it, thinking that he is fooling around outside, and there is no way to control my emotions. Husband felt that I was unreasonable to make trouble, and I also felt so tired.

02 Miss Zou: There are only 0 and countless derailments. Don’t believe in the regrets of men easily.

My husband cheated when I was pregnant.At that time, I was pregnant and the fetus was not very stable, so I didn't have sex with him during the whole pregnancy. When I was eight months pregnant, my husband’s lover came to provoke me and said that the two had been together for several months. I was so angry that I almost miscarried and was sent to the hospital.

When in the hospital, my husband knelt down and confessed my mistake, let me forgive him this time, he will immediately break the relationship with the woman. Although I was very angry at the time, I had no choice but to forgive the child before the birth.

However, what I did not expect is that less than a year has passed since this incident, and my husband derailed again. It was a deceitful man with a man's mouth. I vowed to never repeat it, but I still made mistakes again and again. Later, I resolutely divorced him.

03 Yuqi: For the sake of the children, I chose to give each other a chance, but I can only pretend to believe

My husband and I have been together for 12 years and married for 9 years. It can be said that we have a very deep relationship. We had a good life after we were married, each had a stable job, and our parents-in-law also helped us with our children. But what I didn't expect was that he would cheat one day.

Knowing the day he cheated, I didn't sleep all night, and even wanted to die. At that time, I was very determined to divorce him. My mother-in-law told the child about it, and the child cried and told me not to divorce. Because I felt sorry for the child, I finally compromised.

But the marriage was not divorced, and the relationship was gone. I couldn't sleep in the same bed with him anymore. I chose to sleep in separate rooms. We got up in the morning and went to work separately, and in the evening we went home for dinner and then went back to our room. There is nothing to believe or distrust, more to open one eye and close one eye.

Concluding remarks:

Many people originally had a happy family, with a loving wife, and lovely children. The family of three was harmonious and life would become more and more enjoyable. But because of a momentary impulse, or a sensation, he can't hold his heart and body, and eventually cheats on others, which will destroy the originally happy home.

Although the broken mirror can be rerounded, it is broken if it is broken. Even if it is repaired well, the cracks will still exist.The damage has also been done. It's impossible to really think that it hasn't happened, and it won't really fade over time.

So, don't choose to abandon your home and wife because of temptation or fluke, and fall into the embrace of others. Although the wild flowers outside are beautiful, they also carry thorns. While enjoying the beauty process, you are also consuming your own happiness and hurting your wife.

Marriage is a practice, and it is also a threshold. Maybe it has bad moments and painful moments, but most of it is happy and sweet. As long as you can guard your body and mind and manage this family well with your spouse, your marriage will be indestructible and your ultimate happiness will be ushered in.

Today's topic: Will you forgive your cheating partner?