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01, Volume Start
Life is divided into hierarchies.
Some people are at the top of the "pyramid", while others can only struggle on the line of food and clothing. There are so many reasons why there is such a big gap between people.
The gap between people will be affected by the original family and personal personality.
The original family will affect a person's life development, affect a person's values, outlook on life, and his lifestyle.
If a person does not get the love he needs in his original family, he will amplify his need for love and hand over his life to others.
Italian economist Pareto once proposed a theory called " 28 law ". Only 20% of people live a prosperous life and realize financial freedom. And the remaining people often find it difficult to reach the height of wealth freedom.
The wealth created by a person in his life can be seen from his outlook on life. The more sound the person's outlook on life, the more sound the original family.
Whether a person lives at the bottom can be seen from his original family.
02. Parents’ living habits affect their children’s personality
native family creates an environment for a person to grow.
What kind of original family a person lives in often has what kind of insights and patterns he or she lives in.
The lifestyle of parents has a subtle influence on the personality of their children.
The more successful your career and richer your life will realize the value of your time and will not be willing to waste it. Educating children is even more aware of their time. They always encourage their children to learn more and enhance their personal value.
Parents with a pattern are willing to let their children gain more insights and make continuous progress in their limited time. Let them have a deeper understanding of the world when they were young.
A family that does not live a wealthy life will be much worse for their children's education and resources. living habits will be lazy and their control over time is not so rigorous.
Children learn from their parents to be addicted to mobile phones, watch TV, and play various games. I am unwilling to face the real life, do not want to learn boring theoretical knowledge, and lack the courage to face difficulties and setbacks.
The establishment of personality is often an important way to success.
In native families, if parents do not have good habits and cannot persist and self-confidence, then their children will also be affected. It will be difficult for them to break through the original family in the future and it will be difficult to achieve something.
03. Parents’ education methods affect their children’s future
Parents are the first teachers of their children.
Parents' educational concept has been subtly accepted by children as children. If parents can give their children the right way to educate them, children will have a good habit.
Faced with setbacks in life, growth-oriented parents encourage their children to continue to overcome them; anxious parents see that there are too few opportunities, so they advise their children not to waste time and advise them to give up.
Growth-type parents actually do not blindly pamper their children, but let their children know what they want and are willing to work hard for it.
Growth-type parents believe that no matter how ups and downs the lives of their children, as long as their children have their own persistence and excellent morality, they can gain a foothold in the wind of life.
, anxious parents will not consider their children too long. I always feel that what your child’s future is like depends on your child’s choice.
Anxiety parents are always anxious about money throughout their lives, and rarely really consider what they need for their children. Moreover, it is believed that raising children safely until adulthood has fulfilled all their obligations and completed all their missions.
The educational methods of parents affect the future of their children. Whether children have a promising future can be seen from the parents' educational methods.
Children educated by growth-oriented parents will be more courageous to try, have their own pursuits, are not afraid of setbacks, and can get out of the bottom of life through their own efforts.
Children educated by anxious parents will be used to staying in their comfort zone because their parents neglect management every time, and do not have the courage and perseverance to struggle.
04. Parent-child relationship, social relationship that affects children
Parents are like drops of water, nourishing the dry hearts of children.
The relationship between parents and children may affect the relationship between children and others after they enter society in the future.
In particular, the relationship between children and mothers will be reflected in the interpersonal relationship between children and others.
Different parents come into contact with different social levels. Children of growth-oriented parents will be more confident and motivated, and will be easier to obtain resources through hard work. Children of anxious parents will have various worries and often deny themselves.
Growth-type parents can be friends, communicate well, respect each other, and listen well when they get along with their children. When children grow up in such families, they often know how to get along with others appropriately and friendlyly when they get along with others.
If, the relationship between children and parents is very bad, they often quarrel and often have cold wars.
Or, children do not get the recognition of their parents and need to please their parents everywhere. Then, after entering society, it is easy for him to develop a "pleasant" personality, please others, and dare not express himself.
The more harmonious the parent-child relationship is, the more harmonious the social relationships the children establish with others will be, the easier it will be to gain connections and help the development of their careers.
05. Summary
Krelov said: "Reality is this shore, ideal is the other shore, with a turbulent river in the middle, and action is a bridge built on the river."
On the road of life, when getting along with children, parents should not think that the only child needs to learn at home. Sometimes, the power of parents can bring more inspiration and role model to children.
Parents read books with their children more and learn together, so that their children can know that learning is a worthwhile thing.
As parents, please be a growing parent. As children, please work hard to grow up and surpass your original family.
strives to create a better family atmosphere for children, so that children will have greater room for development, and the entire family will also gain more development and gain more on the road of struggle.
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Author: Xia Mo, a new emotional tutor, psychology scholar, a popular emotional writer on the entire network of over 1 billion, a happy woman manager, focusing on emotions, gender, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.
