Hello everyone, I am a full-time mother, but it is more appropriate to call me a novice mother, because I just became a mother for a few months, and there are still many things to learn about raising children.
1. Physical changes
01. Hair loss
I didn’t have hair loss in the first two months after giving birth, but I didn’t want to have hair loss after giving birth, but it was late. Later, every time I wash my hair, my hair fell a lot.
02. The skin becomes worse
Because I often need to get up in the middle of the night to feed, I can't fall asleep immediately after feeding. Over time, the quality of sleep becomes very poor. What follows is that the skin becomes sallow and dark circles are getting heavier. I often stare at myself in the mirror and stare blankly, thinking that is it me?
03. Memory decreases
Memory decreases. It is obvious that what I said and did in the previous second, but I can't remember the next second. I often just finished talking to my husband about something. After a while, I thought I hadn't told him, so I told him again.
2. Changes in mood
Due to changes in body, I began to become impatient. If I asked my husband to do something and he didn't do it immediately, I would lose my temper.
Usually after my husband goes out to work, I am alone at home to take care of the children. I can easily think randomly. I become very emotional and fragile. I long for care, but I resist others getting close to .
What I said is not selling anxiety, these are true portrayals of me taking care of the child alone after giving birth, but one day, a beam of light suddenly shone in my life , which cheered me up again.
3. Adjust work and rest
One day, I saw an article on the headline. The girl in the article has been from a poor family since childhood, but she has changed the living conditions of the family with her own efforts. I think she is very great , and her younger brothers and sisters also take her as an example.
This is the power of role models . After reading it, I felt that if I live like this decadently, my children will most likely develop this kind of personality in the future. If I cheer up and make myself more positive, I believe that my children will take me as an example. When grows up, they will become a talent that is useful to society and the country.
01. Adjusting the routine
The first thing I need to change is my routine. Of course, I still need to get up in the middle of the night to feed, but I used to like to browse my phone after feeding, thinking about watching a few videos before going to bed or watching this episode of TV before going to bed. As a result, it was dawn as I watched it. At this time, I felt very sleepy, but the child woke up.
So I no longer bring my phone to bed. After feeding the child, I go to bed by myself. This way I can force myself to put down my phone and sleep well, so that I can be more energetic during the day.
I used to have a midnight snack every night and always wanted to eat barbecue milk tea. These things have caused my figure to become more serious, so I also decisively quit midnight snack .
Meditation before bed is really helpful for improving sleep. Every night after I coax my baby to bed, I will put down my phone and start meditating, close my eyes and focus on my breathing, and recall what I did that day. During the memories, my brain will slowly become tired, and I will naturally fall asleep when I feel tired.
02. My work and rest time
02:00-02:30 Feed the child
06:00-06:30 Get up, wash and brush your teeth, eat breakfast
06:30-07:30 When the child wakes up, wash the child's face, change the diapers, and feed
07:30-09:30 Play with the child
09:30-10:00 Feed the child and coax him to sleep
10:00-12:00 Read books, find materials, prepare writing outlines
12:00-13:00 Play with the child
09:30-10:00 Feed the child and coax him to sleep
10:00-12:00 Read books, find materials, prepare writing outlines
12:00-13:00 Play with the child
09:30-10:00 Feed the child
10:00-12:00 Read books, find materials, prepare writing outlines
12:00-13:00 Cook, eat, relax and rest
13:00-16:00 Feeding children, bathing, playing with children, performing early education, coaxing to bed
16:00-18:00 Continue to write
18:00-19:00 Cooking, eating dinner
19:00-21:30 Change the diapers, feeding, coaxing to bed
21:30-22:30 Revise the manuscript and review the writing materials of the day, wash and sleep
Although my time is occupied by my children, I still take time to read and study now. I know that only by constantly learning can we make progress, because in writing , you cannot only output without input , otherwise you will not be able to write anything.
4. Make more money when you have time
I am now taking care of my children full-time, and my income is based on writing. Although my writing income is far less than those who earn tens of thousands of dollars a month, I can earn income through my own efforts. is not a housewife with a palm upward . I am already proud of this.
My initial writing device was a , my husband used an old laptop. The keyboard was broken and he went to the repair shop and said he wanted to change the entire keyboard. It cost more than 1,000 yuan. He was reluctant to change it. He spent dozens of dollars to buy an external keyboard online, and it still works very well.
I often envy some bloggers who can have a spacious and bright workbench and use their favorite computer. I believe that one day, , I can also have such a working environment .
No matter how bad your experience was before, if you are willing, you will be a self-disciplined person from now on, go to bed early and get up early, and work hard to make money, and your life will definitely not treat you badly, and the life you want will also run towards you.
or above, encourage each other.
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