According to a certain media report, in 2003, there was a building materials boss and a steel boss in a certain area in Northeast China for good friends and people born in the 1950s. Because of this generation, they have a deep-rooted understanding and emotion about studying abroad, they always believe that studying abroad can make a name for themselves and shine their ancestors. Therefore, after they made money, they sent their sons to study in Japan.
However, their sons, A and B, did not study in China, and they did not accept their parents' discipline. When they arrived in Japan, they were unable to study without their parents' discipline and they were even more unable to study. More importantly, they often fight and cause trouble in school, and both were expelled from the school.
At this time, the business of both of them was not good, and their financial aid was basically cut off. Therefore, the two of them often went to and from Internet cafes, and even stole other people's property in Internet cafes.
Just then, a slightly older veteran from Henan, C also joined their study abroad team.
This veteran also came with the goal of being able to make a name for himself and glorify his ancestors; but his study is not just a piece of material.
So three people often go to and from Internet cafes. In order to survive, they want to steal the big boss’s money all day long.
After many scouts, one night, I climbed over the wall and entered the home of a barbecue restaurant, killing the owner of the barbecue restaurant and his wife and a pair of children, and sank the four of them into the sea. Later, the Japanese police found out that the three of them were murderers.
A and B ran to China, but were later arrested by domestic police and subject to legal sanctions. C was arrested while preparing to flee to the airport in China and sentenced him to death in 1999.
The life failures of these three people are actually caused by inertial psychological effects.
Inertial psychological effect is the unique psychological effect of people's cognition, attitude, emotions, and emotions to maintain their original unchanging state and continuous movement state.
In layman's terms, it means that society has changed. You still use the past ideas to view things that have changed, and still use the past old methods to choose life. In this way, the lightest ones will give people a joke; the heavy ones will bring you life failures and failures.
In today's world, there are many cases where such inertial psychological effects bring unfavorable and failures to some "knowledgeable people".
In the early 20th century, China lags far behind Western countries. The state sent prodigy to study in Western countries. After returning to China, it became a pillar of the country. There were also many truly knowledgeable people who sent their children abroad to study, and after returning to China, they became the best people. This is a golden way of life adopted in response to the domestic and international situation at that time.
However, after the 21st century, China has become the second strongest country in the world, and studying abroad is not necessarily a golden way in life. Today, there are too many international students in my country and there are many pheasant universities abroad. It is difficult to distinguish the quality of international students. The value of international students will naturally decline rapidly and cannot be compared with international students in the 20th century.
is just the opposite. Many parents who have not been admitted to college in China want to achieve their goals by sending their children to study abroad. In fact, these children not only have poor academic studies themselves, but also do not study under the eyes of their parents in China. When they go abroad, they lose their parents' discipline, so how can they learn by themselves and how can they succeed in their studies? !
For example, before liberation, in rural areas, people with business acumen became rich by buying land, becoming landlords, and becoming local wealthy families; but when they were about to liberate, some farmers worked hard and had accumulated some accumulation, so they bought land, but they did not know that once they were liberated, they would not only be classified as landlords, but also confiscated. Later, in previous political movements, these people relying on the so-called "landlord component" not only were they affected themselves, but their children were also implicated and lost their future.
For example, in the past few years, young people have been employed in big cities. There are indeed many opportunities for development in big cities. However, in recent years, the surprisingly high housing prices in big cities have made the quality of life of those who live in big cities have poor living quality: either the living environment is very poor, or the down payment is hard to earn, or the monthly payment is saved, or even graduate students from prestigious universities have finally been admitted to national and ministerial-level institutions, but due to economic and living difficulties, they have to resign or go home to start a business.
These are life failures and failures caused by people's inertial psychology.
How to avoid the influence of inertial psychological effects, be good at grasping social development trends in a timely and even ahead of time, constantly accepting new things, be good at changing yourself, don’t follow the crowd, and don’t follow the trend.
