The healthy growth of children requires a complete and warm home. The most basic psychological need, namely, a sense of security, is the sense of stability given by the original family. A broken marriage will not only cause harm to both husband and wife, but also cause harm to children to lurk and gradually deepen, and will also show many emotional and behavioral problems.
Parents should learn to communicate effectively with their children and give them an understanding
When children enter the teenage stage, their children's learning and social activities have become more complicated, and children also need to be more independent and independent. In elementary school, when children play with other companions, they will move more than words and have short friendships; but in adolescence, friendship needs to be based on complex interpersonal relationships, and children also need to find a close friend who can speak everything, rather than a simple playmate.
Parents should learn to communicate effectively with their children and give them understanding
Adolescent children have enhanced autonomy, so parents should give them opportunities and guide their children to realize their shortcomings calmly. Junior high school students in adolescence do have aesthetic problems. Some middle school students who are not well-informed in the world mistakenly regard vulgarity as passion, ignorance as simplicity, rudeness as frankness, vulgarity as cuteness, shamelessness as fearlessness, and willfulness as personality. Parents should guide their children correctly, pay attention to the way they communicate with their children, and do not deny them completely. They should guide their children to think independently about the correctness of their behavior.
Parents should learn to communicate effectively with their children and give them understanding
Shunde Children's Psychological Center Zhong Qinghui reminds parents to learn to communicate effectively with their children and give them understanding. Due to the particularity of this stage of adolescence, they no longer worship their parents like they did when they were childhood, and they also felt that their parents could not understand their thoughts and feelings. The first object of adolescent children is no longer parents, but turns to peer groups. Therefore, in communication, parents’ tasks are more about listening and understanding than preaching. Parents should not make arbitrary judgments before their children finish speaking, as this will only make their children close the door to you. Only when children feel understood can they be willing to accept guidance from their parents.
