The most amazing thing about this book is the arrangement of the story and the author's writing skills. She arranged the five stories in an interspersed way just right, and told them with gentle and delicate brushstrokes.
describes advanced cancer patients without deliberately using words like crying or crying, but they can make people cry with their books many times. Such processing and description make this book more color than the same type of psychology books.
While writing stories, it also incorporates the knowledge of psychology into it in an easy-to-understand way, without any stiffness at all. While understanding it, it also makes the book more smooth to read.
jokes from time to time also add a lot of fun to the reading process.
I have to say that this is a rare good book. Some people compare it with "Mr. Toad Goes to See a Psychologist", but I want to say that these two books are not on the same level at all. They are more professional, more interesting, and more touching than Mr. Toad.
The author mentioned in the beginning that if you accidentally see your own shadow in it, it is both a coincidence and no coincidence.
Indeed, after reading the whole article, you will feel that you have a lot of resonance with the protagonist of the story, and you will also find many sentences that you have never expressed in words. Whenever you read these sentences written in your heart, your soul will tremble. The process of reading
is like a journey of life, and another is like an experience of growth. I think people who have never experienced it or have insufficient awareness will not understand it.
The author said that psychological counseling is actually the process of experiencing growth; I want to say that reading this book is like doing psychological counseling, reading other people's stories, and growing your own soul. The concepts such as "growing in relationships and living in the present" passed down by the author have become the guiding light of my life; the importance and role of caressing and other contents have made my parenting journey less rugged.
When I read the book to the end, I always feel that I am still unsatisfied. I am reluctant to say goodbye to this book, but there is no banquet that will last forever. Even if I am reluctant to leave, I will eventually say goodbye.
This is like the parting ways after the successful end of psychological counseling: there is great love, reluctance, and the desire to face the future life. I think this is a feeling of seeing the future full of hope in a bitter sweetness mixed with.
Psychological treatment is to break up and say goodbye after establishing a deep relationship with others. Isn’t growth a transformation of life in intimacy and separation? Just treat "read this book" as a pause between transformation and transformation. It will not really end because the process has been written into our lives and it will always accompany us on the road to the future.
