Starting this year, humans are moving towards the post-epidemic era, and its important indicator is that human mental illness will gradually become serious.
A classmate of Shu Xiaomi, whose father and sister both suffer from psychological illness, and the doctor diagnosed it as depression. Due to the impact of the epidemic, this father suffered serious losses in the factory operations and excessive pressure caused depression . This sister just entered the first year of high school this year and was depressed due to study pressure. The family of four has two depressions, and you can imagine how much pressure the women in this family are.
Last year, a student committed suicide in the junior high school of Dongsheng Town , the best private school in junior high school. The child committed suicide because he was criticized by his teacher. The child's father is also a director of this private school. It is said that his assets are billions, so he can be said to be a super rich man. But parents neglect their education, which leads to their children's mental illness. The child is only thirteen years old and ends his life.
This year, the top scorer in the college entrance examination in a certain city has been admitted to Tsinghua University , but he committed suicide. There are two versions of the reason why the child committed suicide when he heard about the child. One is that the child had a disagreement with his father when filling out his professional application. The father was too strong and led to the child committing suicide; the other version is that the child was in love at school, and the two kissed in the bathroom of the school and were secretly photographed and videos were spread. The girl could not stand the pressure of public opinion and committed suicide first. The boy also committed suicide because the girl's suicide increased the pressure.
Fan Dad analyzed last year that due to the impact of the epidemic, many people will suffer from mental illness. Because of the pressure of work and life, children from study and adults, they are too stressed and do not know how to release pressure. The accumulation of long-term pressure leads to psychological illness, which may eventually lead to suicide.
Fan Dad A friend's wife teaches in Zhongshan , claiming to be the best private school, and everyone knows this school well. This friend said that every semester, many children in this school have transferred to school because they can't stand the school's closed management and have too much pressure to study and have psychological illnesses to transfer to school. Almost all private schools in Zhongshan City have primary schools from Sunday to Thursday. They go to evening self-study every day, unlike public schools, , where you can freely move at home at night. This management method like raising chickens and ducks in captivity causes mental illnesses whether it is children with good academic performance or children with poor academic performance.
Of course, even if children who go to public schools do not have to study at night like private schools, some children go to cram schools to make up for classes, and they do not have the freedom of time and cause psychological illness when they are under too much pressure.
Everyone comes to this world and will face all kinds of pressure from childhood to adulthood. Children are stressed whether they are in public or private schools. It’s just that the pressure is different due to different families, different schools, different intelligence, etc.
Since everyone is facing pressure, it is particularly important to know how to release stress. There are many ways to release stress. For example, those who can run several kilometers every day will definitely not suffer from depression; those who like to play basketball, read, write and draw will know how to release stress.
These days, my fan father is thinking. In the past, I sent my fan to learn interests and hobbies and guided him to read, because I wanted him to have one more skill when he grew up and live a colorful life in his spare time. But now, let’s analyze that people who can live a rich life in their spare time rarely suffer from mental illness. Most of those suffering from mental illnesses do not have their own interests and hobbies and cannot let go of their minds.
Books, little fans like to read, play drums, , like to ride wheelbarrows, , draw, and ping-pong can also play several rounds with ordinary enthusiasts. With these interests and hobbies, the boy is a healthy and sunny good child.
The guide of the fan father to Shu Xiaomi is to play to his strengths and avoid his weaknesses. Whether the student Shu Xiaomi is born to inherit the genes of the fan father or is influenced by the fan father the day after tomorrow, the boy likes quiet events and is not good at sports events such as basketball. Therefore, in sports, the fan father still needs to spend some thoughts to guide him.
