I have watched a movie. There is a plot in the story in
: When my wife was sleeping at night, she dreamed that her husband had a car accident on her way to work; when she woke up in the morning, she tried her best to prevent her husband from going to work.
Take away your husband's mobile phone, take away your husband's key, and hide the file bag that your husband must use to go to work every day.
She told her husband: "You can promise you anything else, but you can't go to work today."
When the bus to the company came to the door of the house, the wife came forward and said, "My husband is not feeling well, so I won't go to work today."
As a result, there was an accident on the bus on the road, and someone was killed.
The moment he heard this news, the wife and husband were shocked in their eyes, and then hugged each other with tears.
Regarding dreams, many people have studied this issue from ancient times to the present, but there has not been an interpretation of "completely scientific sense".
The most popular dream analysis is probably the analysis of dreams by the Freud school.
What does it mean when you often dream about someone?
We can analyze this matter from an emotional and psychological perspective.
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Dream is the "re-reflection" of reality
do you know?
people's thinking and memory are actually one fragment after another.
You can understand it as "movie screening", and pictures, stories or memories are constantly flashing back in your mind.
can also be understood as: Dreams are an extension of our consciousness.
What we do frequently in reality will reappear in dreams;
The person we often miss on weekdays will appear in dreams.
For example:
You like someone and meet with this person every day, but you rarely communicate.
Despite this, being able to meet him every day is your greatest expectation and motivation when you go to work.
You miss him more and more and like him more and more.
Because you miss him too frequently, you have a deep memory of him subconsciously. In this state of
, the chance of you dreaming of this person is even higher.
This is the reality of consciousness, the reappearance of dreams.
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Dream is a "regret" deep in a person's heart
There is a concept in psychology called " Tsaiganik effect ".
refers to:
People have a deeper memory of unfinished things compared to those that have been completed.
Tsaiganik effect can also be understood as the obsession in people's hearts, "unfinished complex".
I have a friend.
His grandfather died in his 80s, and he worked in another place and could not come back for various reasons.
He was particularly sad, regretful, because he almost grew up with his grandparents since he was a child.
originally planned to take your family over to stay for a few days if you have time, but unexpectedly, there is no chance to meet again.
When he chatted with me, he said: Every night when dreaming, he dreams of the elderly.
In fact, this is because he has a strong obsession and regret in his subconscious mind.
It is precisely because of too many regrets that he kept hinting in his heart:
"It's all my fault. If I went home early, I wouldn't have any regrets."
Under such regrets, people often complain about themselves.
The more obsessions accumulated in the subconscious, the more likely he will dream of the other person.
is the same in love.
If you have just been broken up, you love each other very much. No matter how you try to keep them, the other party will not give you any chance.
At this time, you are also regretful, unwilling and angry.
The more you think about it, the more you feel wronged.
At this time, the unfinished obsession in your heart will be "replicated" into your dream.
And all of this is your subconscious mind and your tension.
When people dream, their consciousness is relaxed, while subconscious is active.
At this time, what you subconsciously care about the most and miss the most will appear in your dreams.
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Dream is a person's inner warning mechanism
Tell a joke:
When children wet the bed, they often have a strange dream. In the dream, children are indeed convenient in the bathroom.
But after waking up, I found that I wet the bed.
This is physiological tension, which causes a person to enter a dream subconsciously and sends a sign of "wetting the bed" to the brain.
For example:
If you sleep in the wrong position, your arms or quilt press down on yourself, causing your breathing to be unsmooth; at this time, the subconscious will quickly let you enter the dream, and then give you a sense of embarrassment of being bound, chased, and unable to escape.
and other things can all be understood as the "warning dream" sent to us by the brain.
And these dreams are related to the environment we are in.
So, why do you dream about the other person?
can be understood as:
At a certain stage, you are always nervous and scared when you are with the other person. The impression the other person brings you is serious and makes you nervous.
Or, you just had a conflict with someone, and your memory is very profound; whenever you think of this person, your emotions will fluctuate. A state like
will also cause you to dream about it frequently.
In short, dreams are not only a reappearance of a person's subconscious mind, but also a hint of a person's emotional and physiological changes.
Topic today:
Do you often dream about someone?
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