Usually, when it comes to "cuckold", they will almost always be taken for granted with pain, humiliation, and jealousy. Because under the monogamous contractual marriage system, men and women need stable cooperation to form a family, and they are afraid that the other party will betray them.
But there are so many people who fantasize about their partner and love others and are excited about it. This sexual fetish is called "cuckold fetish".
It also has a more well-known saying: NTR, or "Taurus". NTR is the abbreviation of "NeTo Ra Re" in Japanese, which refers to a relationship between a partner and others. So people with a "cuckold complex" will call themselves NTR enthusiasts.
This fetish sounds like a niche and "unhuman nature", but it is actually very common. A survey by neuroscientists Ogi Ogas and Sai Gaddam found that the cuckold movie is the second most popular sexual keyword on English search engines; on the P site, men who search for "infidelity wife" have watched the most erotic videos.
In addition, according to a survey of Americans, more than half of heterosexual men said they had cuckold fantasies. Moreover, the fantasy of is not limited to men. Among the female group, almost one-third of people say that they have had the cuckold fantasy of .
Then why are these people not afraid of betrayal, but can get pleasure from being "green"? What are the deep psychological factors behind it?
The following is a combination of some information to share with you five common psychology.
1. Pysody mentality
In the emotional center of the brain, The center responsible for pain and pleasure is the adjacent . So sometimes when the pain is not as severe as imagined, the brain area responsible for pleasure will be activated to feel happy.
This is like some people like to eat spicy food. Spicy is actually a kind of pain , but it can give people a feeling of "pain and happiness". The process of "green" in
is also a process of coexistence of pain and excitement. is similar to the pleasure brought by physiological pain such as whipping and wax dripping enjoyed by the abused party M in SM. NTR enthusiasts enjoy psychological abuse.
When you see or imagine a partner having sex with others, mental pain can inspire them to experience more pleasure.
A friend of NTR enthusiast shared with me that when he saw his partner having fun with others, he would certainly feel jealous, but he was " the more jealous he is, the more excited he is ".
2. Narcissistic mentality
Sex psychologist David Ley found in his research that the reason why some people like cuckold fantasies is out of narcissistic mentality, objects their partner into the "property" they own. Others fall for their partner not only prove the value of their partner, but also makes themselves feel proud.
Under the mentality of this kind, the relationship between a partner and other people, especially with some young, strong and sexually charming men, can indirectly highlight the value of a partner and his own strength. The mentality of "the person you have sex with belongs to me" makes people feel great psychological satisfaction.
But it is not difficult to see that this mentality has a premise: the partner is "mine" from beginning to end.
3. Compensation psychology
There are some cuckold complexes who are willing to be cuckolded because their partners are stronger in life or feel that they cannot satisfy their partners, so they are happy to be cuckolded in order to let their partners enjoy more cake trends.
from it, They want to have a stronger person to help themselves conquer their mates. When they see their partner being satisfied by others, they will also imagine in their hearts that the person who brings happiness to their partner is themselves. This sense of substitution makes them excited.
4. Competition awareness
In nature, since females have fertility and males do not have fertility, males often need to compete with each other to gain the favor of females.
Based on this phenomenon, the hypothesis of "sperm competition" was born. It believes that when a woman pairs with multiple men, it will stimulate their sense of competition, experience behavioral and physiological changes, and produce more and more active sperm. In this process, the excitement brought by the competition of will be converted into singu , making people feel more exciting.
5. Defense mechanism
people have a certain desire to control, and this is even more true for many people with cuckold complex.
But people's hearts are difficult to control, especially in the tempting outside world, when a partner is prone to cheating. This makes them feel inferior and anxious. and triggers the inner defense mechanism , giving rise to the idea:
"Since your partner may cheat on me, it is better to just let her do it once under my arrangement."
But this does not mean that they can let their partner cheat ( In fact, many cuckolds cannot accept that their partner cheats on me ). The premise for a partner to do AI with others is: Everything must be under their own control, and the third party is also fully informed by it.
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