After a man has a short-term problem, his inner psychological reaction is actually a very critical link. This is because psychological factors are related to short-term problems and are closely related to later recovery. The Songfu Couple Emotional Health Center (Shanghai, Beijing, Shenzhen) in Shanghai said that men cannot have the following four psychological reactions after having short-term problems, otherwise the dual psychological activities of "causing due to psychological factors" and "providing burdens due to psychological negative treatment" will be even more unfavorable to physical recovery.
1. Don’t take it seriously in your heart: Men are generally big, and they may not care much about some issues, or they may not pay enough attention to them. The psychological reaction of not taking it seriously in your heart with short-term problems has caused many men to miss the opportunity and miss health, and not taking it seriously will become less and less effective.
2. Lucky mentality: Many people are used to having a lucky mentality, thinking that short-term problems will get better after they occur, and thinking that it is an accidental event. This is too blind and confident. Some are accidental, and some are inevitable in chance. Therefore, men should not be lucky when encountering problems, but should take a careful look.
3. Everyone has it, what are you afraid of: To be precise, this is actually an illusion created online. Don’t think that everyone has short-term problems, and don’t think that so many people have them, so you don’t have to be afraid. Sometimes the "universality" seen on the Internet may be self-comfort or self-evasion for many people.
4. I'm done, I'm giving up: This is a worse psychological misleading. Many men do not communicate with their lovers after this mentality, and they are depressed, and even give up. This mentality is undesirable, it will mislead a man to resist seeking help, thus not giving himself a chance to return to normal levels.
The psychological activities in the heart are more destructive than the external ones. Short-term problems caused by psychological factors should be more positive, and use positive psychological energy to eliminate unfavorable psychological factors to control the barbarians.
