Since ancient times, people have always used the word longevity to bless the elderly, eat longevity noodles for birthdays, and write birthday cakes on birthday cakes. The blessings are also "Shoubi Nanshan".
With the improvement of living conditions and medical conditions, the life expectancy of the elderly is getting longer, but as people get older, as the body organs age, there will be various diseases. If it is a minor problem, can you take care of yourself or I am very happy, but when I am seriously ill and cannot take care of myself, I will suffer a day of sin if I live one more day.
There is an old saying that "there is no filial son before the bed for a long time." This is indeed the truth, especially for the old people who are confused by Alzheimer's, and there are some very wayward old people who are not easy to serve, and the children who are filial will be impatient.
The neighbor upstairs in my house, the old lady is more than 80 years old, and she can still walk on crutches at the beginning. It may be that she is older and sleeps less. She always walks around the house with crutches at night, and knocks on crutches in the dead of night. The sound on the floor was very harsh. She would knock down things in the room from time to time, and she would slip and fall, and the noise kept coming.
Later, she became paralyzed. She might have pain in her body, so she yelled and groaned all night, knocked on the wall with a walking stick, and his son was almost 60. He had not retired yet. He had to go to work during the day and wake up every day before dawn. She cooks, waits for her to eat, and does not rest well at night. It was sent to a nursing home for a while, and the nursing home asked him to take the old man back.
When my mom was hospitalized last year, there were more than 80 old ladies next to the bed. She was from Shandong and had a pension of more than 6,000. She had medical insurance. It is said that she was an engineer when she was young. Because she was authoritative when she was young, she was old. It's also very hard.
There are two sons who are in very bad health. The two daughter-in-laws said they would not accept the old lady at all. They said they would rather pay for her than serve her, because they still have to look at the grandson. Many, diabetes, eye cataracts, high blood pressure, heart disease..., take medicine every day and get belly injections by yourself.
As there is no wife anymore, the two sons don’t want to, and in the end they have to live with the only daughter, who also has more than 60 daughters.I also have to show my daughter two children. In this way, a person of more than 60, while taking care of his mother who is hospitalized all the year round, while watching his two grandchildren, is also very tired.
The old lady has a bad temper and is very self-willed. The girl doesn’t listen to what she says, stubborn, and the mother is noisy and sometimes gets angry. She ran home angry and left the old man in the hospital. Here, the old man was left unattended during the eye surgery. He wanted to drink water, so he fumbled and fetched water. I was there, so I took care of her, fetched water for her, and helped her to go to the toilet.
The scenery has been for a lifetime, and whoever thinks that there is no dignity in old age, and even his own children are disgusted.
My grandfather passed away last year. He was 93 years old. He was deaf and finally lost his eyesight. This old man had a very grumpy temper. He was like that when he was young. He would curse if he didn't like him, no matter who he was, his own children. Scolding, my wife also scolded, even my daughter-in-law, grandpa, and grandchildren. My two aunts said they didn't take care of anything.
My mother has five brothers and sisters. My mother is 70 years old and the youngest uncle is over 60. She is not in good health. My uncle had a car accident, my aunt had a craniotomy, my mother and my uncle Very bad health, asthma, lung disease, heart disease, rheumatism, etc. Only the second aunt is healthy, but she runs the clinic herself and is very busy.
My grandma passed away early. In the end, my second aunt paid the money to buy a small house near the house, put my grandfather in, and gave me three meals a day. When I finally couldn’t take care of my own hair, how many hairs The gray children take turns to take care of them. My grandfather is also making trouble all night. He can't take care of himself and can get everything everywhere. These old people who need someone else to take care of them have to take care of their own fathers, not to mention how difficult it is. NS.
My grandma was 85 when she passed away, cerebral thrombosis was paralyzed in bed for more than three years, and the house was given to my uncle and aunt, so they mainly take care of them and assist other children.
can't take care of himself or herself,She couldn't move half of her body, so she could only lie down or sit in one position every day, looking out the window in a daze every day, hoping that someone would come and talk to her.
Later, various complications, all my mouth ulcers, I couldn't eat anything, and still clamored to eat this and that, the pleading breath and eyes made people shed tears, it was too painful, everyone couldn’t help but hope She ended this pain sooner.
Although we all hope that the elderly can live a long and healthy life and enjoy the happiness of family, some practical problems are still unavoidable. When the parents are in their 80s, their children are gray-haired elderly people, and most of them take care of themselves. It's hard to take care of your parents day and night. The degree of difficulty can be imagined.
So to say something disrespectful, I really don’t want the elderly to live for too long, their own pain, and also cause too much trouble to their relatives, but this kind of thing is not up to you. I hope everyone has a healthy life. Body!
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