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Family influences all our thoughts and decisions, and the subtle influence between husband and wife is huge.
Secondly, I think a man’s confidence and confidence are often given by his family. For a man, the luckiest thing in his life is to marry a woman who brings him motivation. .
When things are bad enough to a certain extent, people tend to have the attitude of breaking the jar. This point does not need to be questioned.
includes the relationship between husband and wife. If at a certain stage, the relationship and relationship between two people are particularly stable and harmonious, the resilience and patience of each other will be much better, because everyone has such a tacit understanding and is unwilling to destroy any beauty. Things, even if you feel wronged or something.
So the affirmative or negative of the partner will have the same result.
is like a wife who always belittles, scolds, ridicules, and strikes at her husband. If this happens, men will really fall into a long road of self-doubt.
will be extremely careful when doing things at the same time, fearful, and all decisions on major issues, because he is too scared to do something well.
a qualified wife,At least he knows how to magnify the advantages of her husband, and if the advantages are magnified, there will be fewer shortcomings. And a smart wife is always very wise to put a high hat on her husband, because she knows that everyone will work harder to maintain and preserve this honor and vanity.
This is always the best way to mobilize a man's enthusiasm, a way of praise and recognition, and in the end, it is yourself who will benefit.
Husband and wife are a community of interests. What kind of partner is also affects and determines their own lives. As for what a partner is, there is no specificity, but it will be changed by our own changes and guidance.
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Some people say that what kind of wife a man marries directly determines what height and level he can reach in this life. Until recently, after listening to the past of an elder, I discovered that this is indeed the case many times.
is also the original words of this elder: "A good wife directly determines the success of a man in his career."
when everyone around him flattered him All of the success factors are attributed to his wife, including the three points that he mentioned the most grateful for his wife.
The first point is that after marrying my wife, I was almost impoverished at that time. I was tossing around for livelihood issues, but nothing improved. Is there any guilt for your wife? There must be, but his wife has never been in front of him and questioned the original decision to marry him.There is no doubt about his ability.
always said: "If there are too many people who want to be rich, they can be successful, that's pretty good. As long as the life can be passed, you can live it."
He stayed with him for eight years of poverty.
The second point is his wife’s support. When he was ready to go to the next business, his life was a little better at that time, but his wife was not afraid of him tossing, mainly because of understanding, he I also want to make this family a better life.
During that time, his wife had a harder time. In addition to household chores, she had to get up early to help him.
After a long period of not making money, I finally made a little money, and then I lost money again. Having said that, he was still a little moved in his current state of mind, and that was the first time he doubted his ability.
has been bumpy for five or six years, and the words of his wife have always supported him: "What kind of hard days have we never had?"
After success, his wife noticed his arrogance and swelling, so he turned into a whip when he was proud of the spring breeze, because at that time he had confidence in everything, or was too confident, so that the whole person lost the previous Reason and thinking.
Of course,Even so, I still lost a lot of money later, but fortunately, with the reminder and restraint of his wife, I didn't fall into the situation of nothing.
summarized his life experience in a few words. When he was young, he was ignorant and always felt that this is his own noble person and that is his own noble person. Suddenly he woke up, and the real nobleman was by his side.
He has thought about it many times, but he is very certain that if he did not marry the current wife, he would never have the current life.
For him, 's wife can be described as a pillar when he is destitute and a whip when he is full of spirits.
can really crush and crush a man, often the one he loves the most, so his wife’s denial and blow can easily destroy his belief in life.
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remembered the confession of a male reader before, when he was still at work in the company, his wife often beat him all day and thought he and don’t make money. Comparison of men.
When he finally made up his mind to start a business, his wife was the first to pour cold water on him, and said: "What are you going to do? Where are you? If you lose your wealth,Days can’t pass..."
and so on. Later, when he encountered financial problems, he wanted to regroup and come back again, but his wife was calculating how much money could be sold for tables, chairs and benches, and those ugly ridicules were flooded every day. In his ear.
Then he went to work again, and continued to endure the blows of his wife every day: "I've been blind in this life, and I see you have nothing for a lifetime. _Span7span Even when the child makes her upset, he yells at the child: "It’s as useless as your dad." _Span7span
Indeed, often affected by the influence of his wife, what kind of motivation can there be.
In fact, many husbands and wives are missing a share of their destiny. If the conditions are not good or you encounter financial difficulties, you will immediately start complaining about men’s problems, and then regret who you should choose at the beginning.
Do you know that couples should be able to help each other in the same boat? We should hug together and change the status quo through the hard work and struggle of two people.
We are married, not to find a home for ourselves, and there is no good thing to sit back and enjoy.
Of course, in business. The success also depends on ability. In addition, the wife’s support for her husband should not be blind support.I mainly want to say that behind the scenes, two people have the determination to face a common destiny.
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