"It's easy to love each other and it's hard to get along." Sometimes people who have you in their hearts will choose to leave you, and sometimes the reason for leaving is not because of not enough love. People who have you in their hearts but are unwilling to continue to get along with you are mostly disappointed in you. If you are abandoned by your lover inexplicably, don't rush to blame the other person, and find the reason in your own body. There is a colleague next to
. One day, he suddenly found that his girlfriend who had been in love for many years had blocked all his contact information. He felt very puzzled. Although he was angry, the colleague thought she was just having a temper, so he still got off work as usual. Later, she went downstairs in her company to wait for her. She shook her head and left. With a resolute expression, her colleagues pleaded bitterly, and even wanted to kneel to her, begging her not to leave her.
The other party was helpless, so they had to find a quiet place, planning to explain things calmly. She told him that in fact, she wanted to break up for a long time, because she thought he was an uninspiring person, no matter what it was, as long as she said one, he would never say two. Sometimes she encountered a problem and thought I need to find someone to discuss the solution together, but after discussing the discussion, he will start to agree with her statement, and finally I have to make my own mind.
In addition, he loves too humble, this unbalanced feeling, she thinks there is no future. She feels that a man without principles and bottom line cannot go long in his career. She doesn't want to tie up the rest of her life with such a man, although he treats herself very well.
There is another thing she can't tolerate most. He asks her to borrow money every month. Although they return it on time, she is very dissatisfied with his behavior. She thinks that a man cannot control his desire to consume, and absolutely controls it. In her life, such a man has no hope of being together, and in the bottom of her heart, she looks down on men who often ask women to borrow money, so she finally decided to break up. Colleagues saw that there was no room for recovery and felt regretful.
Don't do these three things when you get along with a woman. They seem to be nothing but they are really cheap.
Follow women's words
Women like men who are assertive, but some men always like to compromise with women when they disagree with women. There are some things that women shouldn’t interfere. As long as a woman opens her mouth, a man thinks it. If you have any problems, do as well. Men think this is a manifestation of petting women, but in fact, this behavior is very cheap.
You made the wrong choice because you heard what a woman said, and the person who ultimately bears the consequences is you, and a woman will feel you are incompetent and an unreliable person. Men don’t do such stupid things. At any time, stick to the point you think is right. Don't obey her because you are afraid of contradictions, or you will lose your charm in the eyes of a woman sooner or later.
There is no principle when licking a dog
Some men are willing to be a humble licking dog in order to please women. As long as the other party has something to do with him, he must act accordingly. Even if he receives more cold talk, he will never change his original intention. . Men think that women will be moved by their true feelings sooner or later, but they don't know that you are very despised by women like this.
In the eyes of women, good men are arrogant, they have their own principles and bottom line, they live openly and domineering. If you always act very humble in front of her, then you will always be a "spare tire", she will not consider you like this, even if you pay more, it will be of no use.
Asking women to borrow
when they are short of money. Lack of money is normal for many people, but men should remember that if you are not desperate, you must not ask women who are getting along with you to borrow money. Because once you open your mouth, you will change your appearance in the eyes of a woman. She will feel particularly insecure when interacting with you, and she will no longer dare to rely on you wholeheartedly.
Once a woman has such an idea, her feelings for you will probably gradually fade. A woman who dare not rely on you can imagine that she will not stay by your side for too long. If a man desires a long-term relationship, don't let a woman lose confidence in himself. When you are really short of money, see if your friends and relatives around you can help. If you can't, find a part-time job. Work hard for a period of time and solve the problem through your own efforts. In this way, women will look up to you.
Some things are just small things, but they affect you very much.The image in the human heart. When a man and a woman get along, don't think that she is "your own person", so you don't have to do any disguise in front of her, there is no principle and bottom line.
No matter how good the relationship is, there must be a certain sense of distance between people. No one can truly "combine into one". Don't do these things that will make you lose the price. People's hearts are always unpredictable. Men must always remember to live the way they want. You have to live the way you are satisfied before you get the admiration of others.
