A relationship is divided into two stages.
1 is before the relationship is confirmed, and 2 is after the relationship is confirmed.
Before determining the relationship, the main problem is how to get out of the order, and after determining the relationship, the main problem is how to manage the relationship.
We will explain the details in 2 phases. Today, we will mainly talk about the stage before determining the relationship, that is, how to get out of the order.
Regarding leaving the order, many people will enter a misunderstanding, thinking that as long as they are beautiful enough, it is easy to leave the order.
Yes, yes, being beautiful can indeed reduce the difficulty of taking orders, but it is not necessarily possible to take orders, so there are more and more single beautiful girls around us.
On the contrary, as you can see, there are fewer girls who are not particularly beautiful.
Then what is the reason? Beautiful girls only achieved the first point described below, while those who are not particularly beautiful, the first and second points are done very well.
01 Get a sense of
The key to gaining a sense is to strengthen the other person’s desire to get you.
For example, a dish is very fragrant and makes you want to eat it immediately. This is the feeling.
When you want to establish a romantic relationship with a man, you must strengthen your sense of acquisition and stimulate his desire to get you.
Actually, many people know it at this time.
For example, show your beauty, show your figure, show your humor, show your knowledge, etc. These are all strengthening the other party's desire to want you.
At this point, beautiful people are born with an advantage.
However, ordinary girls don’t have to worry. The beauty that men want is not the perfect beauty, not all-round. The beauty, but the local beauty.
For example, you may have a good-looking face, but you may be slightly fat and not tall enough;
You may have a good body, but your chest is not full enough, and your face looks average.
At this time, you also have a strong attraction, but you need to be confident and amplify your strengths. Don’t care too much about other shortcomings.
At this point, men are very cute, because the standard of men is, as long as you have beautiful places.
So, as long as you rest assured and boldly show your beautiful side, then you will have a feeling for men.
But at this time, some girls will do something wrong, that is, they are too enthusiastic about men and even take the initiative to pursue him.
Have you ever thought about one thing? When you are too passionate about men and even actively pursue him, what are you using to strengthen his desire for you?
is because you are passionate, soHe wants you?
is because you take the initiative to chase him, so he wants you?
The answer is neither. Obviously, these two behaviors cannot stimulate the other party's desire to want you.
Therefore, for a single girl, you must not be too enthusiastic about a man or actively chase him.
Why do some girls who actively pursue men can make the other party want her, even if they actually date her?
The answer is that this type of girl knows that the purpose is to get feeling, but is passionate about men, and actively pursuing men is just a way to establish contact with him.
A man will not refuse a girl’s initiative, but he may not like this girl.
So this kind of girls will use a little bit of lust and indulgence in the process of getting along with them, and they will even wear some clothes that show their own strengths very carefully, and even use third-party reputation to reshape The attraction to this man.
At this time, men’s sense of gain will be stimulated, thereby reversing their status and allowing men to gradually become active towards girls.
So those girls who dare to be very enthusiastic, and even take the initiative to chase men, they have their own methods and strategies. These are high-level coincidence combos that ordinary people can't use.
If you are such a smart girl, then you can go the other way and take the initiative to pursue men.
If you are not, you have to avoid treating men too Enthusiastic, too proactive behavior.
In an honest and practical way, by showing your attraction, strengthen the man's desire to get you, let him take the initiative.
02 Ownership
, although you have the charm of showing yourself through sense.
But sometimes you will find that you are fine at the beginning, and slowly you get colder, even if he suddenly ignores you, you have nothing to do.
Why is this happening? In fact, you have not done a good job of connecting the sense of ownership, that is, the sense of ownership.
Simply put, a man has a desire to chase you, but he doesn't know what you think. Do you have the same thoughts about him?
At this time, he wants to get your desire, which may disappear at any time due to lack of motivation. Then you need to provide him with some motivation at this time. This motivation is a sense of ownership.
This is like Lamborghini and Ferrari cars, everyone wants to get them, but the price is millions of cars, which is unaffordable for ordinary people, so for ordinary people It cannot be owned.
So you can't make people unavailable like Ferrari.
Most of the beauties, on this point, are far from doing as well as ordinary girls.
Because they rely on themselves to look beautiful and becomeIt is very cold, inaccessible, and difficult to own, which is why they are left.
The sense of ownership can be divided into 3 levels to release.
At first you can mean the same.
For example, if he likes spicy food, you say he likes spicy food too, he likes reading, and you say he likes reading too.
After a period of time, you can to show that you like him.
For example, he did a caring thing today. You can say that I like caring men. I will find a boyfriend in the future and also look for someone as caring as you;
He did a very responsible thing. You can say that I like responsible men. In the future, I will find a boyfriend who is as responsible as you.
At this time men will feel that I seem to meet your standards, and I seem to be your boyfriend.
This way you feel very strong.
At this time, you need to put forward a 高标准 to balance it, otherwise you will appear to be too proactive.
For example, when you finish dating, the man is stupid and didn't send you in the car. He takes a taxi and leaves. You can say that I like gentlemen men, but I don't like men who are not considerate.
If a man hasn't expressed anything to you, but just secretly likes you, you can say that I like men with a little courage. The kind of men who do things timidly are really unattractive.
This is where ordinary women are not doing well enough. They show too much sense of gain and make themselves too proactive. This sense of gain seems cheap, which leads to men suddenly not Care about you.
Pay special attention, when you put forward a high standard, he must be able to make efforts.
For example, as mentioned above, let him be gentleman who is not gentle enough, and let him who is timid and fearful have courage.
When you have expressed the same and expressed your liking for people like him, and then add a high standard, then your sense of ownership is enough.
Then let’s go on a date with peace of mind, sooner or later he can't help but confess.
The last sentence is summarized:
To get the feeling. Simply put, let you be the first person for his girlfriend.
Ownership Simply put, he may also be the first person for your boyfriend.
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