Why do women ask for their names to be added to the house? Because women don’t feel safe in a marital relationship. Why don't you feel safe? If you first want to understand why humans have changed from a matrilineal society to a patriarchal society, you will know that marriage and love are just a fig leaf for men to ensure that their private property can be inherited by their offspring. He uses marriage to ensure that his offspring are his, and uses love to seduce women to be willing to bear offspring for him, at the cost of using his property to support one or more women.
In other words, women actually feel that the greatest injustice lies with their children. There is only one solution right now: no birth. The world is fair. Or to ensure that women have enough maternity and child-rearing subsidies to take care of their children. This subsidy is levied from a portion of men's wages. Children are bought by women with their lives, and men cannot empathize with them. Women have to pay more to raise them, but as long as the mother has them, the children are not much different. On the other hand, if men have it, is it really hard to say?
Two people want to be together because of love. Two people want to get married because money is in place. A stable life depends on money. Being able to last a lifetime depends on cherishing each other with your heart, not just a few sweet words and flattery.
In this society, women who can develop well cannot afford men. For the same job opportunities, if a man and a woman compete, the man’s chances are definitely greater than the woman’s. For two people who work equally hard, the boss is more willing to use a man, because the female employee has to take maternity leave, but there is no one to do the work during the time when the female employee is on leave. If she recruits a new person to take over the woman's work, after the woman's maternity leave is over, the person hired later cannot be arranged, and private companies cannot raise more people. This is a real problem; when a man marries a wife, more than 50% of women have to give up work to have children, take care of their husband's family, do housework, and take care of their husband and themselves. It is difficult for women to find high-quality jobs after giving birth to the same high-quality jobs they had before marriage. Moreover, many women's financial status before marriage was not good, and they could not receive compensation for divorce. Once a woman has had a past with other men, she no longer has a good label in the eyes of others, which will cause lifelong harm.
When it comes to the issue of buying a house for marriage, many people think: People who just need to buy a house for marriage usually buy it with their parents. If the house is bought with my own money, I am willing to write the name of my partner because I love her. If the house was bought by my parents, I would not want to add my significant other’s name, because this may be the pension money that my parents have worked hard for all their lives.
So it doesn’t matter if you buy a house with full payment or not, but if you buy it with a loan, two people need to bear the mortgage together, so you must add your name. In fact, those who really get married are rushing to add their names to the house and get divorced. This is just a psychological comfort. It is not easy for men to have men, and it is not easy for women to have women. Women will still suffer in society. If something happens to marriage, the man has some conscience and can give the woman some compensation. If the family is not good, it is not the woman who is at fault. Maybe the woman is and leaves the house , and there is nothing. Youth, children, marriage, everything is shattered. Men and women should be considerate of each other.
In short, men and women are physiologically different, and life is short, and people will get older. For their own survival, they must continue the next generation. Cooperation is required to ensure the continuation of human beings. In order to ensure the success rate of life continuation, marriage is born. In order to make this process smoother, the Creator gave human beings emotions, but after all, emotions are not the essence of marriage. Ultimately, marriage is for a better survival. However, a series of reasons such as modern socio-economic development and social security have slowed down the importance of continuing offspring for survival, and have had a certain impact on the marriage system.
Some netizens said: Who gets married for the house? Men have the most pressure in life, and men have the least living expenses. Women have to do this and that if they don’t work hard. A friend of mine went on a blind date and he had a deposit of 80,000 yuan for 4 houses in Shanghai. He had no loans or debts. The woman said that he was unmotivated. When I asked the woman what she wanted, she said it was enough that I was a woman. You have nothing to ask for so much.
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