The word "friendship" must be familiar to everyone. It is synonymous with the relationship between friends. So, how to look at friendship? In fact, everyone's view of friendship is different. Some people like to be alone and don't seem to care about friendship; while some people attach great importance to every hard-won friendship, and they even regard friendship as more important than love. This is a good confirmation of the saying that appears in today's era: "I have been as jealous in friendship as in love."
Something happened to me some time ago: when I woke up, I found that my male best friend had deleted me. My first feeling at the time was shock, because I had never been unfriended by a close friend, not to mention that he didn't even say a word about the reason. I was very confused in my heart. I thought he was joking for a while. I sent friend verification messages again and again but couldn't wait for a response. I was disappointed, I was scared... To be honest, I was restless the whole time I didn't find out the truth, I couldn't even believe it was true.
During the ending of this relationship, I learned a lot and grew up. I am very grateful to this friend for accompanying me through a journey in my life. His departure made me truly understand the saying "Some people can only stay with you for a while." This sentence sounds very sad, but it is really realistic and is something that all of us may have to face. He Jiong teacher said in the program: "Although I have many friends and I care about the people around me, I have never had the luxury of keeping anyone by my side for the rest of my life." This sentence is really sobering for the world. You can't expect to keep a friend by your side forever, because you don't have the ability to do so. When a friend is about to leave, we cannot and do not need to stop it. Even if you are really reluctant to leave, try to accept it slowly, because those who are leaving are fully prepared.
God is fair, maybe your encounter with someone is for a better parting. When this friend leaves, it means you are about to meet another friend who may be better. Therefore, we must learn to let go, not only of love, but also of friendship. Learn to move forward and look forward. No one can survive without the other. In many cases, time will give you the answer.
As children, our understanding of friendship is very vague. We were very innocent and never thought about what friendship was. We just played together so naturally. Thinking about it, we were quite naive at that time. "We often quarreled, and we ignored each other and stopped playing with each other. It might not take long for us to reconcile again." At that time, we didn't worry about anything, we just wanted to be happy. However, the older we grow, the more we discover that there are very few pure friendships that we long for. Perhaps it needs to be attached to some kind of "interest relationship" to be established, and then such friendship is no longer pure.
For me, friendship in junior high school is the best. I think it may be difficult to maintain friendships in elementary school. Friendships in high school seem to involve a lot of comparisons and intrigues. When I was in junior high school, I was looking forward to high school life; but when I got to high school, I found that junior high school life was the most unforgettable...
There will be friends at every stage, but I think it is enough to meet one or two close friends in a person's life. Some people seem to have many friends and great cards, but when they really encounter difficulties, no one is willing to lend a helping hand; but some people seem to have only one or two friends, but they are very generous when they encounter difficulties. Although it is said that "one more friend, one more road", when they are only hypocritical to you, how can they be willing to help you when you encounter difficulties.
Don’t be alienated from friendship just because of a failed friendship. Don’t people go through failed experiences one after another? What we should do is to cherish every friendship in front of us, cherish every person who loves us and deserves our love, and say Goodbye to the past and Say Hello to the future!
What do readers think of friendship? If I have any wrong opinions, you can tell me in the comment area below. Everyone is also welcome to express some valuable opinions.
