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How many women go around in the world of love, going back and forth, just to find the person who belongs to them.
But not everyone knows what a real soulmate looks like, so they choose someone who can make them not lonely.
But women, you have to know that what you lack is not a partner, someone who makes you not lonely. What you need is a soul that is in harmony with you. He not only understands the meaning behind your words, but also feels sorry for your hesitation in speaking. He can warm your whole life.
It is not difficult at all to live a life that is not lonely, as long as there is one person by your side, it doesn't matter whether his soul can resonate with you or not.
But only when you meet your true soul mate, you will understand that everyone before you is just makeshift.
More and more women hold the idea that if they can’t meet the right person, they might as well stay single, and don’t settle for anything less.
Instead of living an unsatisfactory married life, it is better to be single with high quality and live freely alone.
Really, the feeling of being connected with your soul mate is really beautiful. He is like God completing the missing other half for you. From the moment you meet, your life becomes complete.
What kind of wonderful feeling does it feel when you meet your soul mate? Three women will tell you the answer:
Wang Yuyan, 28 years old, township civil servant: When you meet a true soul mate, you will feel an indescribable sense of stability in your heart, and your inner state will be very well prepared.
After graduating from college, I became a civil servant in a nearby town and have been working here ever since.
In the early years, I focused on work and did not want to fall in love. But at this age, my family is very anxious, fearing that I won’t be able to get married.
I want to fall in love freely, but unfortunately the market is limited, so if I have to look for it myself, I can only find it in towns and villages. And the men who have public offices here have been robbed for a long time, and those who don't have public offices, I don't seem to think highly of them. After all, I have a stable job.
Because of this incident, my family gave me countless blind dates, but none of them were too satisfactory.
I was ready to resign myself to fate and find a slightly better man to get married. My soul mate finally appeared.
He is the manager of a local enterprise. He came to us mainly to invest in setting up factories to create employment and increase income.
Our work overlapped, and we had many opportunities to contact each other, and then we learned about each other’s basic situation.
He is divorced and has a daughter in kindergarten, who is mainly taken care of by his parents. He has a very gentle personality and always smiles when he talks, giving people a very stable feeling.
We were all interested in each other, so we started talking naturally. When I am with him, I feel that my temper is very stable. Even if the work is tedious, I can calm down quickly as long as he comforts me.
Really, a patient lover can really withstand a lot of pain and discomfort.
Wu Siling, 27 years old, bank teller: When you meet your soul mate, you will feel particularly safe and your whole person will be particularly supple and gentle.
I met my current boyfriend when I participated in a charity event. Since I had never done any charity event, I signed up with a try.
That activity was organized to pick up garbage in a scenic spot. Women picked up garbage on flat areas, while men picked up garbage on slightly steeper slopes.
We got to know each other because of this event, and then added our contact information.
He told me that he would do such a charity activity every three months. He usually has too much work pressure, so he could relax and help others, which gave him a sense of accomplishment.
I think he is quite frank. Unlike some people who have high-sounding reasons for doing charity, he is very sincere.
He is several years older than me. After he and his fiancée broke up, they did not fall in love again. There was a gap period of about three years.
And because my last relationship hurt me too much, I haven’t come out yet, and I haven’t been in love in the past few years.
How do I feel about him? It’s not a very exciting feeling, but when you see him, you feel safe and relaxed.
This is something I have never experienced in a relationship before. I feel that he is my soul mate because he gives people a very reassuring feeling and is very comfortable.
Zhang Yiyun, 28 years old, training teacher: When you meet your soul mate, you will have a strong sense of stability, and there will be a subconscious feeling in your heart that it is him.
I had a marriage. My ex-husband had some personality problems and we got divorced.
However, we have no children, so the divorce was relatively smooth, and there was no issue of child custody.
My mother-in-law’s family also introduced me to partners, but they didn’t feel particularly suitable. In addition, my previous marriage left a little shadow on me, and I didn’t really want to start a relationship so quickly, so I felt a little repulsive.
Therefore, although my family members kept introducing me, I actually didn’t get in touch with it seriously and just let nature take its course.
But some time ago, my aunt introduced me to a person of the opposite sex. I think he is really good and very suitable for life.
He is not married yet, is two years older than me, works in a company, and earns a good income.
Every time we meet, he will thoughtfully prepare various items for me and never be stingy with spending money for me.
As for himself, he always wears the simplest clothes and the simplest meal plans, and is very frugal in his expenses. With him, I will feel very stable and live a comfortable life.
Time and Emotion Class:
Bi Shumin said: Love and marriage are a process of finding each other and even yourself. Your entire value system and ideological system are extended and highlighted in this intimate relationship.
The process of finding yourself is actually a process of meeting your soul mate. You will understand what true love is, and you will find your true self through constant interactions and become better.
When you meet a true soul mate, you will find that you get along very harmoniously without much friction. Although your life is very dull, it is very stable. A man like
is really suitable for you to join hands with. You won't have so many worries when you are together, and you will be happy and very happy together.
