Every year during the Chinese New Year, men love to return to rural areas where the custom of favoring boys over girls is serious. These places may be a nightmare or even hell for women.
I have heard all kinds of incredible true stories:
The female doctor went home during the New Year, and her old mother asked her to live in a hotel, saying that it was "a married daughter, splashed water, and going back to her parents' home during the New Year, would be detrimental to her brothers." Then, she asked her to go back to live after New Year's Eve.
"Female White Bone Demon" (white-collar workers + backbone + elite) in the workplace followed her husband back to the countryside and was arranged to work in the kitchen. Then her in-laws and husbands took them to visit and give gifts to her aunts and sisters. She was dragged to show off and parade on the road. A group of women who are inferior to you in everything, you will find a sense of superiority in you and stand up to educate you in various ways.
A group of men sat at the dinner table and chatted with the mountains, while women were responsible for cooking, washing dishes, pouring tea and wine, and taking care of children... Then, your handsome and gentle husband in the city seemed to show that he was "favorable and never forget his roots", suddenly became as vulgar as local men - those who don't smoke usually smoke; those who don't drink alcohol usually drink too much; those who don't speak yellow will be open; those who don't yell at their wife usually yell.
A group of people who finally accepted the baptism of urban civilization and advocated equal rights chose to adapt to and even cater to that ancient lifestyle because of the Spring Festival. They pretended to be deaf and dumb and tried their best to play, just to fool the past few days... Looking at the lively and peaceful, they actually had their own thoughts. My personal sorrows and joys were also diluted by the grand festive atmosphere, and everything seemed to have been pressed. You seem to be resting, but you also seem to be having a social engagement.
It is also at this time that you will find: Oh, this is still a deeply rooted father-right society, and if a woman wants to live a little better, she still has to escape to the city. As for the countryside, just go back and take a look and remember it occasionally. You still have to escape to that cold giant city, otherwise you will be uneasy in this life.
