We often say that marriage is not a matter of two people, but a matter of two families.
Some people are used to being selfish and like to double standards for others. morally kidnapped . But when others asked him in turn, he pushed him back and forth.
Couples should be in the same troubles, but for selfish people, seeking profit and avoiding harm is human nature. But when he encounters difficulties, he likes to morally kidnap others.
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Deng Juan originally thought that if she followed her wishes, she would live a smooth life in the future. But reality slapped her a big slap. After experiencing her parents' illness and her mother-in-law's illness, Deng Juan realized that she was not a good person.
The husband's family is average. When the two families are talking about marriage, the mother-in-law bluntly said that the family's conditions are average, and they can't buy a house or give a bride price. As for the wedding, the two families gather together to have a meal together and celebrate.
Although Deng Juan is not an only daughter, her parents have always spoiled her. How could she tolerate her in-laws neglecting her baby daughter? Her parents advised her to break up, but Deng Juan didn't listen, so her parents had to lend them 300,000 yuan to buy a house, but the money was not paid until Deng Juan and her husband fell in love with each other.
With 300,000 yuan given by his parents, Deng Juan and her husband successfully bought a wedding house and got married as they wished. I thought that with the help of my parents, the relationship between the two people after marriage would be even more inseparable.
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But the operation of foolish filial men taking big bags still made Deng Juan doubt this relationship. When Deng Juan was pregnant, her husband brought her mother-in-law, saying that she came to adapt to the environment in advance and took care of Deng Juan's confinement and children.
But after the mother-in-law came, the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law rose sharply, and Deng Juan and her husband also fell to freezing point for a while. My mother-in-law is arrogant and unreasonable, and she is very stubborn. She only likes to listen to good things and does not allow anyone to refute her.
But my husband is a filial son again, so my mother-in-law can do whatever she says. Even my mother-in-law asked him to subsidize his brother-in-law 2,000 yuan a month, and her husband did as he did, regardless of Deng Juan's feelings.
Every time, no matter how difficult the mother-in-law makes, my husband will always meet his requests and will never let his mother-in-law fail. My husband was still soft-hearted. After observing his mother-in-law's instigation, when Deng Juan's father was sick, he hid out on the excuse of going on a business trip, but he was unwilling to pay and work hard to take care of his father-in-law.
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A series of selfish operations of my husband made Deng Juan gradually disheartened. When her mother-in-law was sick and hospitalized, her husband asked Deng Juan to resign and serve her mother-in-law by name, which completely ignited her idea of divorce.
The child was less than 1 year old at that time, and the mother-in-law left the child and left it on the pretext that her sister-in-law was pregnant and wanted to take care of her. Deng Juan had no choice but to entrust her children to her parents for care.
As a result, the mother-in-law was tired and ill when she helped her sister-in-law take care of the child, but her husband ordered her to resign and serve her mother-in-law, and even shouted that "If you don't quit, you'll get a divorce." Deng Juan naturally did not get a divorce, and after her husband took care of her mother-in-law for three days, she rushed back angrily to question Deng Juan.
Listening to her husband's questioning and looking at her husband's distorted face, Deng Juan threw his luggage out of the house and swept him out. A man who ignores his father-in-law but morally kidnapped his wife and resigned to serve his mother-in-law is too big.
Today’s topic:
Do you support Deng Juan to sweep her husband out?
