What the elderly are most afraid of is that they are old, their children are unfilial, they are unwilling to support themselves, and they dislike themselves. In this case, many elderly people are desperate and sad.
The hope of care for the elderly is everyone's hope. Although most of the children are still filial to the elderly, there are also unfilial children. Maybe it is not that they are unfilial, but that they are powerless. What should we do in this situation? Three old men came up with a solution, let’s see how they did it.
01 Uncle Feng: Leave yourself pension money
Uncle Feng is 70 years old this year. He has two children. He worked hard to raise the child, help the child get married and start a business, spend all his savings, and he has no money to save.
I thought to myself that I finally completed the task. When I was old, it was natural for the children to support themselves. But I didn’t know how to be filial and kept asking for money for themselves. They thought it was natural for their parents to spend money on themselves.
Mr. Feng’s wife died early. He raised two children by himself. He gave up finding a wife by himself. He raised the children alone and helped them get married and started a career. He had completed the task.
Later, he refused to give money to his child. His monthly retirement salary was more than 3,000 yuan. He spent 1,000 yuan himself, and he could save 2,000 yuan a month. He could save more than 20,000 yuan a year.
The child couldn't get the money and ignored him or called him, which made Uncle Feng very sad and angry. He realized the reality and could only rely on himself for his retirement.
Now, Mr. Feng still lives by himself, and has hundreds of thousands of yuan in savings. He is not panicked when he has money. He said that I have lived to be 70 years old and I am worth enough. I will be content if I live for another 5 years.
The child knew that he had hundreds of thousands of dollars in deposits. He went home to visit him, said good things, and said he would give him retirement. Uncle Feng said: Be filial to me, I will give you the deposit and house. If I don’t filial to you, I will donate all of it.
As a result, the two children competed to be filial to him, serving him with delicious food and drink every day, and rushing to be filial to him. Uncle Feng knew very well that this was the role of his money. If the child wanted money, he would not give it to the child. Until the day when he closed his eyes, he would not give it to the child.
02 Grandma Liu: Let the child be retired
Grandma Liu is 80 years old this year, she is a rural person, has no pension, has given birth to three children, married a wife for the three children, and her wife passed away.
The child who had agreed to take turns to support her in her old age, and the child was unwilling to support her in her old age. They all said that their life was difficult, and the eldest child pushed it to the second child and the third child was pushed to the third child, but the old man had no choice.
told her about this incident to a niece who was very nice to her. The niece posted the old man's situation online. Many netizens knew that Grandma Liu's child was not only unfilial to her, but also despised her beating and scolding her, and was very angry.
accused one-sidedly, and even the local people pointed at the old man’s three sons when they saw them, making them unable to raise their heads. Under the pressure of public opinion, the three sons had to come to the door to apologize to the old man, saying that they would be filial to her in the future.
With the intervention of the village committee, the three sons agreed to be filial to the elderly, not to dislike the elderly, and to support her. The elderly are closer to her younger son, and she is willing to live in her younger son’s house for her elderly care.
is old and doesn’t want to make trouble or take turns to retire. The three sons agreed that the eldest and the second son would give the third son a sum of money every month to take care of the elderly. The third son doesn’t have to pay the money, just work hard to take care of the mother.
The elderly’s elderly care is perfectly solved. Everyone loves face and pays attention to reputation. No one is willing to bear the infamy of being unfilial. This not only affects one’s reputation, but also affects one’s future. Those children have to honestly support the elderly and never dare to shirk responsibility.
03 I support myself in my old age
Uncle Luo is 78 years old this year. He has a son and a daughter. In the past, he always hopes that his children will support me in my old age and live with my grandson to feel the joy of family.
The grandson has grown up and has his own life. The son and daughter want to be filial to him, but they are powerless and have to take care of the elderly. This is an impossible task for them.
Uncle Luo doesn’t blame his son or daughter. He doesn’t bother them. He will support himself in his old age. When he returns to his hometown, he is in good health and can still take care of himself, so he will not bother others.
He lives alone and has a regular daily routine. He gets up early in the morning and goes out for a walk, exercises, and then goes to the community park to chat with the elderly of the same age and sometimes plays cards.
The day passed quickly, and he figured it out that the child could not be filial to him, and he was ready. He was really in poor health, so he hired a nanny to take care of himself.
He has a retirement salary of more than 5,000 yuan and a deposit of more than 400,000 yuan. It is also affordable to hire a nanny for more than 5,000 yuan. If it doesn't work, he will be moved into a nursing home. Everyone will have that day regardless of whether they want it or not. They can only accept it and don't want to do so much. Now he can eat and move himself, so he doesn't want to bother others.
Summary:
Everyone has a day of old age, and every elderly person has a day of helplessness. The elderly must leave behind pension money under what circumstances, exercise their bodies and protect themselves.
Children are filial, so ask the child to support themselves. If the child is not filial, then think of a solution yourself. Don’t agree to your child’s excessive requests and make plans for your own retirement as soon as possible.
Wait for that day to come, prepare a variety of elderly care plans, there is always a kind of suitable for you. When you are old, you must accept reality, don’t have too many unrealistic fantasies, accept all this, everyone has to go through this day, don’t think too much, the children are unfilial, just like these three elderly people do, there is nothing scary about it. #Telebrity Creation Challenge#
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